Now, let me save YOU from a headache:

Excluding Flashing Images, I only tag potential triggers on original posts, not reblogs. Sorry :\

Privilege does not work like Pokémon types or rock/paper/scissors. ANYONE could be an oppressor or side with one at some point or another (yes, even some of the most marginalized people). Being a dick to ANYONE about something that is personal and outside of their control for ANY reason makes you a prejudiced, dumb motherfucker. If you don't want the shoe to fit, don't put it on

I am queer and this is a queer blog. I blog queerly and queer is not a slur. Fag is though. FAGS AND QUEERS FOREVER!! <3 <3 <3

I probably AM the freak in your DNI list. I am pro-kink, ALL kinks, because to me kink is something that is practiced between consenting adults in sex safe spaces. Real life harm of real life non-consenting individuals (ANYONE who doesn't consent or can't consent) is not kink, it is ABUSE. Don't bother trauma-dumping in my inbox if you find me or my interests unpalatable, I don't care about your trauma, and you don't speak for all survivors. Your trauma is YOURS and while whatever happened to you wasn't your fault (and I genuinely wish you the best healing has to offer🙏🏼 ), it also wasn't mine either so leave me out of it.

How you treat and handle REAL LIFE people and situations will ALWAYS matter more and speak louder of your character than how you treat FICTIONAL people and situations. Full stop. I'm not arguing with anybody about this. I'm too grown and got a real life job and real life bills, you are NOT gonna pull me into some silly-ass argument about My Hero Academy or whatever it's called

I don't owe anyone online any personal, identifying information I don't want to share (and neither do you, btw) at any moment. I don't have to meet anyone's "list of qualifications" before speaking on something that I think affects me or my respective demographics. I, like anyone, could list everything about my background and body for more "credibility" in an online fight.....and I could also just be lying the whole time sooooo....stop caring maybe ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ ?

If you see me using the pronouns We/Us/Our in any of my posts or tags, just go ahead and auto-correct that to I/Me/Mine in your head. I'm pretty sure that what I have been experiencing for years is some form of monoconscious plurality, stemming from how my personality disorder and dissociative traits intersect. I am not professionally diagnosed with DID or OSDD, and I do NOT consider myself a system. I probably won't post about my plurality very often, as I'm not too interested in attracting too much attention for it, or in interacting within larger plural communities in any significant way. If you see a post on here tagged in a plural manner, it was posted, tagged, and approved (to varying degrees) by ALL of us. We very, very rarely experience spells of amnesia, and we share ALL of our memories (or lack thereof). The only differences between us are how we interpret shared memories/experiences, our philosophical perspectives, and some of our personal preferences ( like fashion, pronouns, sexual interests, etc...). We're kind of like a very small jury in a single trench coat, all of our opinions and tastes average out into concise verdicts and expressions (more or less). Think of me as a fairly stable gem fusion from Steven Universe.

If you've made it this far down and haven't come to think me the antichrist, HAVE FUN!!!