comradesystems

Please reblog with your answers!

1. Do you prefer "person with DID/OSDD" or just being referred to as a "system"?

2. How do you feel about other people asking who's front/ who they're talking to?

3. How do you feel about other people pointing it out if they notice you switch?

2. Sometimes uncomfortable but depends on the situation.

3. Same as above. Depends who's asking.

2. Honestly? It makes us uncomfortable. Or, makes me uncomfortable, at least, because unless you're very close to us, the question is just plain weird and kinda triggers us so yeah... If you think you're talking to me (host) but another alter is out and you know about our DID then we will tell you. Does that even make sense? I don't know.

3. It would be scary and uncomfy for me tbh. Especially if someone just points it out when we're dissociated and in the process of switching (which for us is painfully slow). Though I'm glad not many people know about our DID so nobody can really point it out often.

2. it makes us uncomfortable because if we arent telling you in the first place we probably dont know or dont want YOU to know, but were also VERY open about our fronters nearly all the time

Please reblog with your answers!

1. Do you prefer "person with DID/OSDD" or just being referred to as a "system"?

2. How do you feel about other people asking who's front/ who they're talking to?

3. How do you feel about other people pointing it out if they notice you switch?

2. Sometimes uncomfortable but depends on the situation.

3. Same as above. Depends who's asking.

2. Honestly? It makes us uncomfortable. Or, makes me uncomfortable, at least, because unless you're very close to us, the question is just plain weird and kinda triggers us so yeah... If you think you're talking to me (host) but another alter is out and you know about our DID then we will tell you. Does that even make sense? I don't know.

3. It would be scary and uncomfy for me tbh. Especially if someone just points it out when we're dissociated and in the process of switching (which for us is painfully slow). Though I'm glad not many people know about our DID so nobody can really point it out often.

2. it makes us uncomfortable because if we arent telling you in the first place we probably dont know or dont want YOU to know, but were also VERY open about our fronters nearly all the time

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@system-splintered

I genuinely hope for your own sake and the sake of your littles that you rethink your opinion.

Yes, hypersexual littles. Yes, hypersexual CSA victims exist. It is a natural reaction to sexual trauma just as sex repulsion is. Of course it’s not an intentional reaction. Of course it’s not something that should be hidden from the world or pretend doesn’t exist.

But if you fucking think that makes it okay to subject your littles to more trauma, please get some help.

Littles, while able to do more than a normal child, while having more cognitive ability than a typical child, are still functioning mentally below what a typical adult would. They cannot consent, even if they are hypersexual and desire sexual attention. Opening up your littles to sexual interaction is going to make them suseptible to predators and abuse. What they do in their private time is obviously no one’s business, but allowing littles to sexually interact with other people, ESPECIALLY ADULT SINGLETS, IS FUCKING ABHORRENT.

@system-splintered

I genuinely hope for your own sake and the sake of your littles that you rethink your opinion.

Yes, hypersexual littles. Yes, hypersexual CSA victims exist. It is a natural reaction to sexual trauma just as sex repulsion is. Of course it’s not an intentional reaction. Of course it’s not something that should be hidden from the world or pretend doesn’t exist.

But if you fucking think that makes it okay to subject your littles to more trauma, please get some help.

Littles, while able to do more than a normal child, while having more cognitive ability than a typical child, are still functioning mentally below what a typical adult would. They cannot consent, even if they are hypersexual and desire sexual attention. Opening up your littles to sexual interaction is going to make them suseptible to predators and abuse. What they do in their private time is obviously no one’s business, but allowing littles to sexually interact with other people, ESPECIALLY ADULT SINGLETS, IS FUCKING ABHORRENT.

@system-splintered

I genuinely hope for your own sake and the sake of your littles that you rethink your opinion.

Yes, hypersexual littles. Yes, hypersexual CSA victims exist. It is a natural reaction to sexual trauma just as sex repulsion is. Of course it's not an intentional reaction. Of course it's not something that should be hidden from the world or pretend doesn't exist.

But if you fucking think that makes it okay to subject your littles to more trauma, please get some help.

Littles, while able to do more than a normal child, while having more cognitive ability than a typical child, are still functioning mentally below what a typical adult would. They cannot consent, even if they are hypersexual and desire sexual attention. Opening up your littles to sexual interaction is going to make them suseptible to predators and abuse. What they do in their private time is obviously no one's business, but allowing littles to sexually interact with other people, ESPECIALLY ADULT SINGLETS, IS FUCKING ABHORRENT.