Breathe? I don't have time for that

Untangling the influences of my identity- how the world and people around me have shaped the way I view myself and my ability to accept myself- is a never ending process. Am I questioning my sexuality because of compulsive heteronormitivity or because of gatekeeping and biphobia from within the LGBTQ+ community? I love my boyfriend, but do I genuinely lack attraction, or do I lack connection to my queen identity? Do I stay and wonder, or do I leave it all and wander? Either way, it will all be okay. I tell myself it will all be okay.

Just learned that according to Amanda Montell in her book WordSlut that the singular use of "they" was common place in middle english and "considered perfectly acceptable as a generic third-singular pronoun all the way up until the late eighteenth century." And we only moved away from the singular they because some old white dudes thought we should go back to our Latin roots.