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apparently i lost followers for speaking up, so i'm gonna say it again.
racists are not welcome on my blog. anyone discriminating other human beings for their race, gender, disability or sexuality is not welcome. anyone thinking they are superior to other humans are not welcome.
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I'm sick and tired of people treating aromanticism as something they can just shove aside when they want, both with characters and with real people
I know you don't see or value us and our identity but wow hoped you would try and hide it a bit better
in case it was unclear to mcu fans yelena is AROACE! stop shipping her romantically with kate. kate and maya have an enemies to lovers slow burn going on and yelena is kate's bestie who sets them up and eventually teaches her ASL so she can communicate with maya better
I genuinely think allo people are uncomfortable with the idea that and aroace person can be so comfortable in their own skin and portray herself as sexy and beautiful.
But like that’s why we love Yelena. She’s not some shy girl who’s just to scared of the idea of sex and romance. She’s not a robot devoid of emotions. She’s a vibrant woman who’s knows she’s the hottest shit around and is not interested in you or anyone else cause she’s aroace.
And it’s just soooooo cool.
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Is it bad that I don’t want any future projects with Kate and Yelena. Like I genuinely love both the characters and I want to love the idea of them being the new Hawkeye and black widow together, but with everything that’s been happening online with the aphobia and the need to erase aromantic and asexual representation I just don’t want it anymore. Cause I just know that if they were on screen together again everything would just get worse and I’m just tired of fighting for representation everyday and then have the people who I fight to have represented be harassed and attacked. Like I’m tired of having to see aromantics defend themselves time and time again to prove that they are valid in their identity. I’m tired of people acting like asexuals and aromantics are only valid if they have some other identity attached as if we are dlc. I’m tired of people using how we navigate the world and how we form relationships to justify their aphobia instead of just listening to us. I’m just tired and now I can’t even enjoy two of my favorite characters not just in the mcu but I’m the comics as well because I just know with every interaction it’s just going to keep getting worse and worse. So no. I don’t want a movie with yelena and Kate. No I don’t want another tv show. I truly want them to never interact again. Because all people will do is read whatever happens between them as romantic or sexual to feed into amatonormativity and allonormativity and it sucks.
"autistic asexual people exist so its not inherently ableist to headcanon autistic characters as ace" and "autistic people are constantly infantilized and headcanoning all autistic characters as ace can perpetuate that" are thoughts that can and should coexist
allistics and allos can reblog but dont start making a fool of yourself
"Aros can be in romantic relationships!" and "Some aces can have sex!" are all valid things about aspec people, but when allo people use it to justify their continued shipping and smut of canon aspec characters, it doesn't read as a sincere support of different facets of our community. It reads as looking for a loophole, and that leads to erasure. It's the difference between saying "sexuality can be fluid" and saying "it's just a phase, you'll grow out of it". It's not nice.
People are really out there literally saying “I know I’m erasing literally your only mainstream representation, but that’s my right. <3” I hate all of you like I cannot even begin to describe.
if you are acephobic and/or arophobic, unfollow me and block me right this second i don't care if you like my posts, if you think asexuals and aromantics are stupid underdeveloped humans for not being attracted to anyone or not understanding such attractions, go throw yourself in the gutter, i don't care
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I think it says everything I need to know that when aros said "hey, maybe don't ship Yelena with anyone because representation is already null and she is one of the few characters we may see ourselves in" that very niche but very annoying side of the community went "Lol, I'm not going to stop shipping a queer couple just because you guys are asking".
Aros are queer, Susan.
Every time an aromantic posts about something like relationship hierarchy or platonic relationships being devalued in favor of romance, there’s always some allo that comes in and is like “but look at this media, this has an important platonic relationship so your problems aren’t real so shut up!!”
And… okay? That one piece of media or that one situation doesn’t change the fact that relationship hierarchy and systemic amatonormativity is still a very real thing in the real world outside of fiction. It doesn’t change the fact that aromanticism still has little to no representation, or the fact that in many (capitalist) societies, it’s difficult to live comfortably as a single person. It doesn’t change anything about how aromantics grow up feeling like they will be alone for the rest of their life or that they are told they can’t be happy without a (monogamous) romantic partner (of the “opposite” gender). It doesn’t change the fact that single people in general are seen as miserable and incomplete.
Dismantling something systemic takes work, and a shit ton of it. Maybe the piece of media you mentioned is a step forward, but it is not going to instantly fix everything. You acting like it can is simply your own way of ignoring us.
Hmmm I keep on saying I’ll be taking a break from this blog but there’s something I find funny:
“Inclusionists” being openly supportive of aces/aros, until aspec people start pointing out what the problem with society’s view on sex/romance is. Then we’re all just “dumb tumblr kids”.
Pick a side, love.
While aromantic is trending I’d like to say that aromantic people deserve so much better than we’ve gotten in this community so far. Step it up, be a better ally. Listen to our voices, uplift them, and stop letting aces speak over us and for us (Aroaces are fine cause you know. They’re aro too). We have our own voices and they deserve to be heard as well.
We all have unique experiences and labels and it’d be great if we could be uplifted instead of ignored mostly. We deserve to be included as part of this community just as much as aces do.
My aroace ass when my friends say jealousy and possessiveness irl are hot:
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so many characters are canonly queer and their label is not said in the material but shown through how they talk about their attraction and their actions. but they are still canonly queer! why is that suddenly not enough when it comes to aroace characters?
allos just want aroace characters for themselves because even though we have so few they are all amazing and they are jealous
