t4t

wanna hang out [remembers it's rude to put expectations on people] it's cool if not [remembers people like to know they're wanted] but I'd really like it if you did [remembers selfishness is bad] we can do whatever you want though [remembers that handing someone a blank canvas isn't as effective as providing a suggestion to bounce ideas off of] like sucking each others fingers for example

thinking about being described as “remarkably lifelike.” makes this one feel bubbly and a little queasy, which you could interpret as pleasure if you wished

oh no i slipped and sucked on your thumb all sloppy while looking up into your eyes and zoning out

[hoping you'll pin me to the ground and fuck me into the dirt] do you wanna go play outside

transactional thinking is the death of eroticism

taking what you want is already giving more than giving what you think is desired. two people could have entirely unenjoyable sex because they both think they're doing what the other person wants, hoping they'll get back what they want in exchange. on the other hand two people could act entirely selfishly and both get exactly what they want when there's compatibility between desires. good sex is found in the overlap of desire not in a turn-based game of what-do-you-want. stop giving head because you want to be given head or vice versa. what are you, a heterosexual?

boy who whines and moans "please please please oh god" while masturbating alone..... im boy