i do and say all of this because i want to save people from losing so many years like we did but i do have to admit. every time i go on a posting spree about plurality and one of my decidedly not plural mutuals or followers starts interacting with those posts a lot, i do feel my evil grin and villainous cackle coming back
(twirling mustache) often questioning plurality at all is a sign of it. almost nobody does this without having a very good reason to even if they dont realize it. and frankly many of the things that make people doubt it and conclude that theyre not plural (not feeling traumatized enough, not hearing voices, not feeling like they switch at all) are either just other less publicized types of systems or literally just symptoms of being a system itself
and in my experience almost every system has something "missing" that seems like it would be necessary for them to be a system
as an osdd-1b system we struggled heavily for a long time because we rarely ever have informational amnesia between switches outside of just our general poor memory. we remember what other alters do for the most part, but we're completely emotionally detached from it. we didn't know this was a thing that was possible for so long because so much information on plurality is very heavily focused on memory barriers and losing time, and that just doesnt happen to us. this and switches; switches are generally pretty easy for us and can go unnoticed for hours. something that is again not that prevalent in commonly known info about plurality
im struggling to think of other examples but stuff like partial did too can be super hard for people to find out about if youre not looking for it. theres so many deviations from what your idea of plurality probably looks like because it is such an incredibly broad range of experiences











