Cobalt!

Like finding only the best quality clothes in their size instead because such corpulence deserves only the best, instead of getting whatever because “they’ll only outgrow it”.

It’s hot out and everyone’s expecting the big guy/girl to sweat up a storm and reek but no, they smell like pure lavender (example) because their feeder spent a good 60-90 minutes in making sure they were nice and clean after a bubble bath or shower and then every inch of them has been covered in only the best products. Body butters, foot creams, face masks and hair care, special sprays– “jajoba & cashmere” branded shit.

It’s all very expensive upkeep, especially when they keep getting bigger and their body becomes even more expensive in every aspect. Doesn’t matter if the feeder is the service sub or the dom or whatever the fuck either, this is just a necessity.

Maybe this is a hot take, but I can honestly say the most I expect from the average stranger is just to be left alone.

I see people obsessively dividing hypothetical fat people into categories to highlight what makes an acceptable fatty and what doesn't. "Oh if you're fat because you're sick it's okay". "So long as they're at least trying to lose weight". "As long as they're healthy I don't mind what they look like". What's this for? Who's asking for your seal of approval? Who's asking you to be judge and jury of acceptable conditions for fatness, and how are you performing that role exactly? Is it all to make sure people know you are a pretty nice person who doesn't mind all fat people, just the "bad" ones? You're never gonna know the full picture of why anyone is fat, and it shouldn't make a difference as to how you treat them anyway. Your condemnation is useless noise. Your approval is equally useless but slightly less unpleasant noise. You don't need to be doing this. You can just not worry about why people look how they look. You can just not worry about the possibility of others making personal choices you wouldn't make.

I also see people scrambling to justify why they're not attracted to fat people. "It's actually natural to be attracted to people who look fit and healthy". "I just happen to have only dated thin people, it's totally random". "Just because I'm not into fat people doesn't mean I hate them??" "I mean it's just not beautiful okay??" Like... calm down, no one cares? I can just not be your type and you don't have to defend it. Just accept the fact that you might have some superficial hangups (most of us do) and stop making it everyone's business. You're not obligated to be attracted to anyone, you don't really need a morally defensible reason for why you aren't, and no one's better off hearing you try to produce one.

And I see people making a point of how they're not fatphobic, it's just that they personally prefer being at a lower weight and that's just how they like it y'know. Which sounds pretty mellow but basically reads as "all I'm saying is I'm glad I'm not fat", which is why it rubs people the wrong way. You don't need to volunteer this information. You can just be you and live how you like without specifying your stance on fatness (and without implying that size is always fully a choice). No one is judging you for meeting the beauty standard.

oh boy golly im excited to present an animation i made in 2022!!: