S Man

I love getting asks and messages. Even from concerntrolls who demand to know why I'm doing this to myself.

Because it's hot, and I love it. Yes, I'm "ruining" my body.

on sunday a pipe burst in the ceiling above my desk (getting sewage water & debris everywhere) and all of my electronics got destroyed, including my computer & tablet. at least $2000 worth of stuff (including my external hard drives with my all my art from the past decade)

thankfully at least my current computer’s hard drive survived. but everything else got wrecked. i’m going to consult an attorney but i don’t know what’s going to happen with my landlords. i do comms fulltime as my only income & i can’t work until i get my computer & tablet replaced

He is a bit too friendly.

There are a lot of things I just cannot do right now at my size and with my mobility limitations.Whether it’s spending the day at a museum or the zoo, going to concerts, enjoying our local Asian street food festival, or even just being able to go to restaurants without having to do extensive research into their seating options.

So I am raising money to get a folding bariatric power chair. Because I want to get out and live a big life while being a big person.

But still, I see it as very limiting

Like, what if my "dream man" was fat?

What if my issues with plus sized dating has nothing to do with feeling validated by a skinny person and the issues with fatphonia being so insidious that there are fat people who find other fat bodies gross and don't even see them as romantic prospects