♡ aroacespec lesbian (tme), i reclaim both dyke and fag
♡ 24 years old
♡ white + physically disabled + multiply neurodivergent + converting to judaism + did system
♡ major tags below + everything else under the cut + like if read
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♡ if you want to know any of my discourse stances you have to solve my riddles three and be able to discuss the nuance in things but i believe in transfeminism til the day i die + that we will see an end to the usamerican empire and the continued harms it perpetuates globally in our lifetimes. & if you are an asshole to people for fun i will block you.
♡ being a system informs most if not all facets of our collective identity! we live in a state of perpetual change. this is a good thing
♡ i do not want to follow or be followed by any new minors (current followers/mutuals & people i know from off tumblr exempt). if you are under 18 with an unlisted age and i follow, please let me know so i can unfollow for my own comfort. thank you.
♡ please tag incest + cat death/harm/cruelty (even jokes!!!!) + abortion/pregnancy trauma (including loss) + pokemon death/harm/cruelty + sibling death; i filter ophelia/ophie don(')t look and most other versions of my names you may know me by
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♡ married to regal @deadhorse77
♡ the venus cycle masterpost. this is regal's and my novel trilogy! the masterpost is out of date but please please talk to us forever about tvc. i love you
♡ digital art + chainmail commissions
♡ we have blogs for some specific media interests + ask off anon for our system blog & specific alter blogs but @dizcontent is my wretched cohost who loves attention, followers, and saying its terribad sentences to people <3
♡ tag me in: trains, space, cats, mourning doves, jellyfish, ships (esp steamboats and old ships) & shipwrecks, bridges, hello charlotte, team rocket content, & any of my other interests that you know about!!
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I hate what's happened to the word "triggered" because a lot of people are Not very good at realizing when they're having a PTSD response and end up lashing out at strangers on the internet about it and even when you recognize that this is happening to someone else there is not a lot of language that can allow you to compassionately make them aware of what's happening without sounding like you're accusing them of being irrational and flipping out over nothing
If a text post makes you feel like your blood is rushing in your ears, you feel your gut drop, you get so angry you have a Physical Response, that is not normal. Do NOT respond by typing an angry comment. Take a second and breathe and ask yourself if this feeling is originating from somewhere else— is this post about a topic you find upsetting? Does it remind you of someone you have a difficult history with? Are you remembering or feeling things that don't immediately connect to the post or its contents?
It is easy quick and simple to go "OP is DANGEROUSLY WRONG and I have to tell them why RIGHT NOW" but when you're having a PTSD response you are in an altered state of mind. There is a real risk that you aren't reading the post correctly, that you've missed words or phrases or context. Leaving a comment and starting an argument with stranger is also not going to make you feel better— the reply may trigger you again, in fact, and if you were inflammatory you might have triggered the same response in the OP.
Try to take a second and breathe. You don't have to keep scrolling afterwards, some things are worth challenging, but make sure you know what's going on in your own head and the effect you might have on other people. Take care of yourself and take care of your community. And press a cool wet towel to your face it helps.
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I'm going to fix everything in the next three hours everyone wish me luck. if i dont then probably ill dig a hole and lie down in it for a bit in the rain/sun/whatever outside looks like these days
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I see that "learned helplessness" is the hot new psychological term getting wildly misused. the phrase you're looking for is "weaponized incompetence," babes
weaponized incompetence is when your partner does chores shitty on purpose so that you stop asking them to do chores. learned helplessness is when you've experienced so much trauma that you've developed the mindset that you can't meaningfully change your situation and have become accordingly passive.
if your partner is exhibiting learned helplessness they aren't manipulating you, they're displaying a trauma response.
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you look like the kinda girl who'd open up ms paint back in the day select the spray paint tool and click and hold to watch it slowly turn into a perfect circle
