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Regardless of what you think of the N-word jokes controversy, TADC using a song by a Black singer ("Isn't She Lovely" by Stevie Wonder) by having it be covered by a non-Black man with strong "anti-woke" ties (JobbytheHong) was... Well, that was certainly a choice.
Just... Make of that what you will. No further comment.
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Fandom: KR Ex-Aid
Talk about Emu & Parado being a secret fourth thing (not romantic, not platonic, not queerplatonic)
They are like, pretty literally. attached at the soul
Parado says something along the lines of βOur hearts have always been one,β BECAUSE THATβS TRUE! THEIR HEARTS HAVE ALWAYS BEEN ONE!!!
They are the same yet they are different, they are one person and yet two different people, they are connected yet separated, all at the same time!
gonna start saying "secret fourth thing" to not only imply that I am aware of queerplatonic relationships but also to state the relationship in question isn't queerplatonic either but genuinely something else entirely
So just yesterday my houseβs water dispenser was, if you were facing the fridge, to your right.
But today I got some ice cubes from the fridge and turned to the right to find the water dispenser had been replaced by a big cooler. I had to look around for almost a full minute before I realized the water dispenser was actually to the left of the fridge now.
I hate change, dude
So my uncle taught me to ride my uh
Letβs just call it an electric motor scooter, I honestly do not care anymore what word is more accurate to describe it lol
So my uncle taught me how to ride it, he taught me how to slowly come to a stop, how to keep balance, when to put my feet down to guide it along while I turn, etc etc. I think I get it. I think
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One of the worst feelings in the world is knowing that if you ever died, nobody would really give a shit. Hell, some people would even find it a relief because they can finally move on to other people who they love more and find more attractive than you.
It sucks. But, such is life I guess.
Movie: Milk & Serial
The most creepy thing in this entire movie is like, how personal it is. It feels like you are actually watching their Prank Bros channel.
Movie: Milk & Serial
Some parts I think about (not in any particular order, just the ones I remember first):
My new favorite type of media is one that gives the characters the weirdest names.
I think you all should go watch βMilk & Serialβ if you havenβt for whatever reason.
If you somehow havenβt heard of it, just know itβs great, kind of disturbing.
Itβs on YouTube. It has some blood (yeah, well, itβs a found footage horror about serial murder). Itβs made by the same person who directed Obsession.
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A small rant about FOMO and peer pressure, from a girlie who has, subtly and unsubtly, changed parts of its mannerisms so that it could stop being excluded by her peers
I want to start this post off by saying that this is entirely based off my perception of my personal experiences, not on any scientific facts.
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Lately, Iβve often heard the sentiment of βPeer pressure doesnβt really exist lol, thatβs just in the movies. Itβs actually FOMO.β
And I have a few thoughts on this.
First point:
Yes. A lot of what is perceived as βpeer pressureβ is internal, and is indeed more accurately defined/referred to as FOMO. Itβs this phenomenon where people around us do things and never explicitly tells us to also start doing it, but we feel the need to do it so weβd fit in.
And I have definitely fallen for this too! Back then, I started using profanity a lot and learned a few sexual jokes because that is what my βfriendsβ did.
They never verbally said stuff like βWhy donβt you swear, youβre such a loserβ. Theyβre not cartoon bullies. But it was present in how they talked around me. The way they censored themselves so obviously, because I was seen as the βweird, innocent kidβ that they werenβt allowed to cuss or talk about sexual stuff near.
It felt strange, like my βinnocenceβ was some burden they needed to carry. So I became like them. I didnβt become more accepted or anything, I was still the weird kid, but they did stop censoring themselves around me. I was... happy enough with that.
There are a few other things I started doing and stuff I stopped using because I wanted to be like my peers in hope theyβd love and accept me as much as they love and accept eachother and what seemed like everyone else except me and a few other βweird kidsβ.
So yes, a lot of βpeer pressureβ is indeed more of a FOMO thing.
But ALSO!
My second point:
While the cases in those high school movies are very much exaggerated,
I have indeed felt firsthand that kind of peer pressure. Not my FOMO, not my internal desperation to be liked, but genuine pressure from my peers, be it obvious or not.
They didnβt call me weird to my face. But the comments were there.
βOh... You donβt have Instagram/TikTok?β βNo/I have an account but itβs inactive since I deleted the appβ βOh, why not tho? You should install it again.β/βCould you follow me tho?β/βBut this is the class/grade/school account, yk! You should follow it. Weβre a family. (β Why the heck do they sound like corporations??)β
βYou should try this [beauty product]. Itβd fit your face super well!β (Iβd tell them I donβt use that stuff due to not liking those textures on my face n stuff) βAwh, but this would be so good for you! Itβs your shade/perfect for your skin/etc. Besides, this is what grown girls do.β
Itβs not extremely often, but it has happened!
I didnβt really succumb to that type of peer pressure since by the time they started doing it, I was already done trying to fit in and kind of just had my own little circle with very few acquaintances outside of my immediate group.
But it does happen.
Itβs not fair to dismiss all peer pressure as internal, because even though itβs not as dramatic as in musicals and such, external pressure from peers does exist and can be just as damaging/could affect someone as much as their own FOMO.
I have definitely been left out of old friend groups because I didnβt do something they all liked to do. They literally just stopped talking to me. Thatβs definitely not my FOMO.
Summary
My end point here is that while the threat of being excluded by our peers is often a fear driven by our own insecurities and not by reality, sometimes that threat is real and people are forced to conform unless they want to be lonely.
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And... thatβs it. I have no idea what this entire thing means, these are just a few thoughts that I had after seeing those videos abt βWhat peer pressure actually isβ.
Okie, bye!
Fandom: Tobot
I was thinking a lot today. Uh, about Semo with different genders.
I dunno. Hv a pair of badly drawn eyes
day one of having a fandom mutual: you like The Character too? no way!
day three hundred of having a fandom mutual: The Character probably gets vivisected recreationally. no doubt
Queer people getting to be open and talk about their desire for sex is important in a world where queer people are prevented from being with the people they want
Asexual people getting to be open and talk about not wanting sex and never having sex is important in a world that tries constantly to sell sex to us as an inevitable activity
Disabled people fighting for the right to marry is important in a world that holds life-saving benefits hostage and prevents one from marrying
Women fighting for the right to divorce or to never marry is important in a world that pushes women into a subordinate role of "wife"
Ex-Religious people fighting for the right to leave a religion or not be forced to convert to a religion is important in a world that subjects everyone to predatory missionary work
Religious people fighting for the right to practice their religion and do so openly is important in a world that prioritized religions over one another--often Christianity but not always
And you could substitute many more things into this. Young people fight to not be infantilized by authority, but they also in some areas fight to not be adultified. Some people have to fight so hard for a variety of reasons to be able to grow out their hair. Some people have to fight so hard to be able to cut it. Some fight to be allowed to wear coverings, some fight to be allowed to wear nothing. Some fight to be left alone, some fight to get the care they need. Some fight to be able to leave, some fight to be able to stay.
None of these comparable fights are opposed to one another, because the fight isn't about the specific thing, it is all about the same thing: autonomy.
Someone's fight to wear a dress is someone's fight to wear pants is someone's fight to live alone is someone's fight to live with someone is someone's fight to be left alone by medical institutions is someone's fight to be able to medically alter their body.
It is the same fight. People who want the opposite for themselves that I want for me are my siblings. We want the exact same thing: the choice to be who we want, how we want, on our terms.
And I WANT that for everyone. I want people to be allowed to choose what I wouldn't, do what I wouldn't, because then I would be free to do what I want and need.
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So I applied for high school today, jalur prestasi (literally just translates to achievements) and uh. Iβm the top candidate so far out of 108 other kids who applied with jalur prestasi!
Oh my lordy lord youre so smart im so proud of you!!!
Thank youu <3
Iβm but actually that smart tho lol, most of this is just luck
So I applied for high school today, jalur prestasi (literally just translates to achievements) and uh. Iβm the top candidate so far out of 108 other kids who applied with jalur prestasi!
waow you're so cool......
Nooo, Iβm sure u r cooler!!!! :D
