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ever since i was a little girl i knew i was doomed to take things too seriously and think about them forever

At this point it's more disappointing than shocking that not a single assassin in the states can aim a fucking gun

if you're a trans woman it is very important that you're friends with people who are interested in living and living well. Find gym rats, painters, academics, devoted gardeners, gourmands, cinephiles, audiophiles, wine snobs, fashionistas... anyone who is deeply devoted to something in life, that fascinates them, brings them peace, and compels them to live. Learn from them, ask them to show you what's so good about ____. Imagine yourself as one of those anime slice of life characters who've learned that they can be satisfied (fulfilled even) with life as long as they pursue their love of __. The world is full of so much misery for us, and so many of us let that misery and hatred eat away at us until we're depressed, angry shells of people. Refuse that, choose life, choose learning how to live well. Choose enriching your senses by training them.

pronoun circles suck fuck you. we should not socially hold strangers hostage to demand their gender identities from them oh my god. do you actually even need to refer to that person or do you just wanna know "what type of tranny" they are. if you're in an environment where you're going to be introducing yourself & meeting new people & actively referring to them, a bowl with an optional sheet of labels and a pen to write your own name and pronouns is infinitely better calling an impromptu meeting with the exclusive purpose of weeding out which people are trans and what flavour.

What’s better— the thread is filled with people giving some good advice on how to respect a woman’s boundaries and how to ask what she would be okay with, publicly. Lots of trans girls thanking him for being so patient and thoughtful with his words, and lots of people cautioning him that his purpose as a boyfriend would be to keep her safe, even from his own friends and family if need be. A+ shit right here.

This is so FUCKING cute help me

hey, trans girls who are into guys? THIS is what you deserve. don’t you ever believe that you have to bend over backwards for men to like you, that you have to accept being disrespected and mistreated, that you’re something to hide or be ashamed of. you’re beautiful, you’re a fucking princess, and you deserve someone who sees that and loves you deeply and unconditionally, who will choose you over the world and fight the world for you. THIS is the kind of guy.

Let it not go unsaid too this is an act of racism. The uneven retaliation Salem faced cannot be disconnected from his well known role as one of the leading Black voices on tumblr. He is one of many that Tumblr staff have unjustly targeted going back more than a decade.

paws at you. whines at you. awouf

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aw fuck *fastens seatbelt*