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i haven't seen anyone mention this but taylor is so fucking funny for putting the graham norton clips at the end like imagine being like not only are u gonna see the exact moment this mv was born but also when i cast all of the leads at once

Anyway I think this video adds to my feeling that Showgirl is at its heart a project about authenticity and joy in spite of those who would seek to judge your joy as "cringe"

one thing about taylor swift that i can assuredly say puts her head and shoulders above a lot of women in the world, not just pop stars but women in general, is that she's never said or endorsed any bullshit about how ovulation be making you crazy and ladies are just slaves to our hormones. not that she isn't crazy but she's very clear that she's crazy because of the circumstances of her life being impossible to survive without going crazy, and not some woo woo bullshit about how god designed women to give birth and his design was perfect except how it makes us fucking crazy or whatever, and it is still just so reassuring that the most famous pop star in the world does not ascribe her behavior to this kind of dangerous ideology

so many women these days will be like "i love baking bread bc it puts me in my divine feminine cherry bow bunny era" and she's like "i like baking bread because baking is fun and i don't have to leave my fucking stalker-proof minor warlord's fortress to do it" and yet people insist on saying she's some kind of crypto-maga tradwife even though she's probably the most famous Woman With A Job in the world and has never endorsed any of the dangerous rhetoric surrounding things like baking or having kids. but whatever

i stg every time complaints about taylor swift "being mean" go viral I'm just here thinking she should've been meaner. like oh she called the man who sexually harassed her friend a bitch? she politely asked the man who has been harassing her since 2009 and just made revenge porn of her to leave her the fuck alone? she called out someone's one-sided beef with her and noted how obsessed they are with her? she could've slapped each of them and I would've shrugged my shoulders.

"i would kill a pedophile to protect my child" ok but would you teach your child how to say no? even to adults? even to adults you like? would you teach your child the words "penis" and "vulva" and then use them? would you let them ask questions about their body? would you answer them honestly? would you learn how to cope with your feelings when you talk about human bodies, so they don't feel ashamed? would you set a positive example for how you talk about your body? would you tell your child they don't have to hug or kiss anyone? would you tell your family the same? would you stand by them when they refuse to hug someone? even someone you know has never done anything to hurt them? would you let your child avoid food they don't like? would you let you child avoid people they don't like? would you believe them? would you sit in the discomfort of not knowing all the answers and not take it out on them? would you love your child the same if someone did hurt them? would you make them feel valued just as they are? would you let them talk to doctors or nurses in private? would you let them express their feelings? would you show interest in their life? would you let your child say no to you? would you help your child feel safe coming to you when they make a mistake? would you apologize to your child? would you believe them? would you put aside your anger to focus on what would make your child feel safe and loved? would you put your ego aside for your child? would you take your child's concerns seriously? would you listen to your child? would you believe them?

they’re taking my brother off intubation tomorrow they do not think he will make it

he’s gone

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