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A lot of folks in the comments are talking about writing on themselves or setting phone/calendar reminders. Your mileage may vary on those. You may also want to consider ways to set a habit of referring back to a planner or similar every day/hour.

To get those brain juices flowing, check out this Buzzfeed article on different ways folks with ADHD stay on top of things.

VISUAL BACKGROUND NOISE?!

I used to set up a weekly planner, but I’ve since lost it in the clutter. I’ve instead set up a daily planner and that helps keep me on track much better.

he looks SO shocked and taken aback and goes “what did you just say? how do you know my name?” so i sit there for a moment trying to figure out what the fuck he is talking about, and then go, “…. bitch?” and he looks so relieved and tells me his name is mitch.

((Reblog or Halloween won’t be celebrated. If you reblog this in 50 seconds, you’ll have the best Halloween and be blessed by the spoopy skeleton gods.))

Aries:  Pig as the sweet-shop owner who insists upon eating, then critiquing the samples he offers his customers

Taurus:  The bull that chases Tiger because he’s wearing a red parka that he’s overly proud of

Gemini: Mouse and the wind-up mouse that pisses her off

Cancer:  Arnold saying “duck” successfully

Leo:  Pig when he’s snoring (because he ate too much chocolate cake) and wearing the scarf that makes Tiger and Kipper mistake him for a lion 

Virgo:  Pig whenever he’s correcting someone but is actually wrong

Libra:  Tiger when he’s “sick” and wants something to eat, not a puzzle

Scorpio: Sock Thing, or possibly the ghost that can’t scare Kipper 

Sagittarius:  Kipper when he has red dots on his face and nobody wants to be around him but it’s just paint

Capricorn: Either of Mouse’s demanding cousins who are the worst houseguests ever, not that Capricorns are the worst houseguests

Aquarius:  The goose that Kipper rescues and tries to feed cereal that realizes it’s a goose and should be with geese instead of a friendly dog

Rocky relationships, either romantic or platonic, will heal

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Wind just moved to Colorado from Alabama after leaving her boyfriend. Her and her 6-year-old son were originally staying with a family member, but that quickly turned dangerous and abusive. They slept in our bed (in our bus) last night. While I don’t have a problem with the floor, I don’t think our school bus is the best place for a little boy to live. He asked to stay with us last night, so at least he feels safe.

Wind is so ready to get on with her life and get her little boy into their own apartment. Roy and I will help her get in touch with Colorado human services and the food bank and such on Monday and in the mean time, it would be really cool if they could stay in a motel room.

These are two really wonderful people that shouldn’t be in this situation.

If you can send anything to her cashapp, it would really help.

After her son woke up, Roy went to work keeping him busy with math, reading, and lots of rough housing.

Later today we’re gonna rearrange the bus a bit so Roy and I have more room on the floor and they can stay with us as long as they want/need to.

All the resource places open tomorrow, so Roy is taking the day off to make sure Wind can get around as much as she needs to.

We all have food right now, but we can always use gas money (paypal.me/roydieud)

She got signed up with the place where Roy and I work, so as soon as a job comes up, her and Roy will go to work while I spend the day with her son.

Also, the married women are not paid (and therefore can’t qualify for assistance if they should ever divorce, etc). And worth “of course” less than a man.

“ In the Army’s case, the agreement for compensation is that the officer allowance be paid jointly to the husband—the check is written in his name. Officially, the wife is a “worker without expectation of remuneration,” and her husband receives 40 percent more of an allowance as a married man than he would as a single man. “