frozen Cokes before blokes

the post is written angrily because i was (and am) angry. people like the above mentioned american do talk over the rest of the world’s queer history. they do drown out our culture with their own. the fact that i could name their queer historical figures (more, now that a bunch have been mentioned in the notes) but they couldn’t name a single one of ours, and can’t even be bothered to put a tohutō in the word “māori,” really shows that i was right to critique this pattern of behaviour. regardless of your other marginalisations, if an american acts like this and speak over other queer cultures like this then they are american first and everything else second.

Doctor Who (2005—)

if you are in a public building and you see a fire start, leave. that's it.

do not wait to see if someone puts it out with an extinguisher. do not spend time gathering your things.

the very second you see flames, move quickly and calmly to the nearest exit. you don't have time to do anything else.

i see comments on articles about mass casualty/fatality fires, and people are confused about how so many people died despite having available exits and the fire starting small. many people don't understand what a 'flashover' is. when objects burn in a room, they emit toxic gases, which can themselves ignite.

at a point (even within minutes of the fire starting), the entire room reaches such a high temperature that everything (and everyone) simultaneously and spontaneously ignites. even things that are not near to/directly in contact with the flames.

this is an extremely unlikely scenario to survive. even before/without a flashover, the heat and toxic smoke are already lethal (this is what killed my father. the room he was in never even caught fire. he suffered no burns). it is not like in movies where there's fire in door frames and on ceilings that you can maneuver around on-foot.

You can watch demonstrations of flashover events to truly understand the urgency of evacuating when you see an indoor fire.

This is a fire when it starts in a small waste bin in the corner of the room:

this is Three Minutes later:

How long is three minutes, really? How long will it take you to get to the exit? You don't have time to grab your things, to take a video.

You don't have time to look around and wait to see what everyone else is going to do. Exit. Quickly. Calmly. If you see someone near you who may need assistance that you can offer, bring them with you. Move.

If the fire is brought under control, you can easily go back inside once the situation is safe. You're not overreacting. People do and have died because they underestimate small indoor fires. They wait to see what will happen, whether it can be put out, what other people will do. Then it's too late.

When you go somewhere new, take a moment to locate the nearest exits. (in older buildings, if the emergency exit doors aren't alarmed, I sometimes even check to make sure they actually open, if I have the chance. sometimes they're locked.) If you or someone with you is disabled in a way which requires extra time moving and exiting (I sometime use a wheelchair), consider this in your exit route as best as you can.

Above all: Know your way out. Have a plan. Both help you stay calm and escape.