+ LOVED

heyyy shoutout to the selfshippers who struggle with feeling lovey-dovey about their f/o(s).

maybe you don't think about them very often. maybe you can't imagine being affectionate with them. maybe you don't gush about them, or you find it hard to articulate how you feel about them. maybe you're not very active on your selfship blog, or maybe you don't have one in the first place. maybe you're neurodivergent or somewhere on the ace spectrum. maybe you're just independent.

for any reason at all, your f/o(s) would understand.

they know that affection is only one aspect of the feeling of love, and they would never assume that you "don't actually love" them just because you're less dependent on them. they would try to understand how you express your love in your own unique way, and they would give you all the space you need without crossing your boundaries or forcing anything on you. they would be patient and work with you to make sure both of your needs are met.

(pro/comship please do not interact.)

Brushing your hair behind your ear, kissing your cheek before they leave, bringing you a drink, glancing at you when you're not looking, and bringing you things that remind them of you. Your f/o loves you so much, even if they aren't telling you, they're always showing you how much they love you. You're special to them and you always will be.

꒰୨ dividers by @/saradika-graphics ୧꒱

𔓕 tag list: @bytesofaffection @justfrankie3 @mrsmulcher1 𔓕

The list goes on and on, and never seems to end.