Imagine trying a new hobby with your f/o's, one you might not have considered before. Something like candle making, metal detecting, animal tracking, pyrography, yoyoing, or beach combing! Anything that's outside of your normal interests. It's fun to go outside your comfort zone with others you trust.

oh, how your romantic* f/o loves you. she loves everything about you, including the things that you're insecure about. she is so happy that you are a part of her life, and that she is a part of yours. being with you is like a dream come true for her <3

for selfshippers who are uncomfortable with kisses (as well as romantic* selfship imagines writers), here are some alternatives to kissing you can consider:

nose nuzzling

gently pressing your cheek against your f/o's

blowing a kiss at them

saying "mwah!"

lovingly looking at your f/o and smiling at them

if you've thought of another alternative, feel free to share them on this post and i'll add it to the list!

You and your f/o making each other laugh so much that you start tearing up ~🌹

{ proshippers don’t interact }

selfshipper who never cries x f/o who cries so easily

f/o who never cries x selfshipper who cries so easily

shoutout to selfshippers from the global south

shoutout to selfshippers from countries that are barely or never shown in globally popular media

shoutout to selfshippers who are part of ethnic groups that are barely or never represented in any pieces of media

shoutout to selfshippers who miss out on their mutuals' posts or miss out on promo hour because they're in a completely different timezone

shoutout to selfshippers who can't relate to experiences that are treated as universal in the selfship community

shoutout to all the selfshippers who feel excluded and overlooked because of who they are and/or where they're from

you are seen, you are appreciated, and you are loved <3

Imagine taking your f/o on a fancy dinner date. They're always spoiling you, now it's your turn to spoil them!

imagine teaching your F/Os about a topic you know a lot about or mentoring them in a certain skill. they're so impressed by your knowledge!

even if you don't think you're super smart or skilled, your F/Os still appreciate you so much for sharing what you know. now you have one more thing to talk about and bond over :]