kink enthusiast. exhibitionist. jester. fat butch dyke. mean online. dog person. doll.
+21 only. this is a queer blog posting from a perspective that prioritizes consent, clear and direct communication, and continuing education. this is also a filth blog. use your discretion.
no clue what i’ll post but i’m into and/or curious about:
leather, power exchange, sadism and masochism, well orchestrated kink, fetish, and bdsm scenes. horror movies and literature, gothicism, gore, media criticism of monstrosity, monsters, t4t dynamics (exclusively), retro skin mags, bullying, pet play,
etc etc etc if you care to read this far and are curious just ask.
everything that follows should be consumed under the shared understanding that participants are consenting adults in equitable and/or autonomous power dynamics. with the exception of negotiated interactions, fetish, kink, bdsm, and/or roleplay should not be applied to target, abuse, disenfranchise, or belittle participants. idealistically, kink and roleplay are tools for connection, creativity, pleasure, and personal expansion (sometimes literally); there is importance in moderation.
books i recommend for queer sex education: the ethical slut, whipping girl, unmasking autism (+ the author, devon price, has great articles about kink and sex from a trans and autistic pov), why are people into that, polysecure, the wheel of consent: the art of giving and receiving,
