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[ (stitch with @/sorrel.hartley) Whatâs the most like âchronically onlineâ take youâve ever seen on the internet?
I have recieved a comment telling me that it was transphobic to be comfortable with my masculine body as a nonbinary person. Like, (frustrated noise). there is so much to unpack with that take but Iâm gonna focus on tiktok and tumblrâs perception of nonbinary people and how damaging that is to the community.
This idea that all nonbinary people must, like you know be fucking mullet, big eyeliner, fucking skinny, white, afab. Do you like frogs, do you like mushrooms? Shut the fuck up. I sometimes feel like my pronouns are rarely accepted because its like if you donât look in my bio you hear my voice and itâs like, oh- Makes me so angry.
Tiktok and tumblr basically set themselves up for failure when they created this perfect perception of what a nonbinary person looks like. And god forbid if you donât fit into that box, guess youâre not valid. Me being amab does not make me any less nonbinary and youâd think thats a given but for some people its just, you know- Do you like frogs or mushrooms? Iâll kill you, what the fuck.]
Note: The issue isnât the people who fit the stereotypes, its the stereotypes being used to determine whoâs âactuallyâ nonbinary.
Gonna put that in bold for those who might not notice it at first
Note: The issue isn't the people who fit the stereotypes, it's the stereotypes being used to determine who's "actually" nonbinary.
I can't stand when people try to INSIST that a nonbinary person isn't ~doing their gender right~. Like FUCK you! So much of being nonbinary is freeing yourself from boxes or doing whatever the fuck you like with the boxes and making it your own. There isn't a wrong way to do or be any gender, and to try and CREATE a "correct" way to be nonbinary is so gross and wrong.




















