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encouraging the new qifling
I am going to spontaneously combust this is so cute

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i honestly don't really understand why "some people prefer watching gameplay online rather than playing games themselves" is treated as such a taboo when being a spectator is considered a pretty mundane way to engage with most sports, game shows, reality tv or even just like. chess.
like the usual arguments are "not everyone can afford video games or have the software to pirate" or "you can be a fan of a game's story, but not it's gameplay" but also some people just have more fun watching other people be really good at starcraft or speedrun super mario 64, i don't think that's a particularly out of the box way to engage with the medium.
i know this argument is generally about story driven games rather than competitive multiplayer games, but alot of discourse is around how "gameplay is a fundamental part of video games as an artform" and i absolutely agree but i also don't think you need to hold a controller in order to appreciate a video game on a mechanical level in the same i don't think you need a driver's license in order to be a vehicle enthusiast, like it certainly helps but some people are just kind of autistic like that.
a weird trend in this discourse is people going "video games aren't like movies or tv shows you're supposed to play them not watch em" while also going "watch a playthrough of a video game is like reading a movie's wikipedia page" which like why are you claiming the mediums strength is interactivity while exclusively comparing them to non-interactive mediums instead of like. Sports. Or Books?
non-passing trans men still have privilege over trans women
i appreciate people jumping in on the post earlier saying they've been pretty much universally read as a man for years because young trans boys need to hear that. but also. it doesn't matter if you can't even transition you still have privileges over a woman from your same demographic that's just how that works.
everyone can misgender you daily and you can have "F" on every single legal document and yet who's the demographic most likely to be forced into sex work, murdered, and regularly sent to the more dangerous prison. trans men have privilege over trans women and there's no caveat.
trying to explain to dumbass tumblr users that saying they benefit from systemic oppression on a certain axis is not the same as invalidating every struggle theyve ever had in their entire life
average tumblr user reblogs this and says "lol I am a proud brick wall"
fun fact: no matter how much you support other trans people, if you don't respect trans women, you are a transphobe and a transmisogynist. no amount of "but look at all these TME trans people I support!" will ever change that
being trans yourself does not change this either. there is no substitute for respecting trans women and treating us right
get that through your skull or kindly remove yourself from trans spaces

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hello instagram artist. your challenge is to do a portrait study of a woman but youâre not allowed to stylize them so their eyes are really big and more cat eyed than the reference photo. Youâre also not allowed to make their noses more of a button nose or their lips full and pouty or their faces heart shaped with no double chin. Also you have to draw a fat woman. one thats actually fat and not just slightly curvier than the kpop demon hunters body type. good luck
never not thinking abt this
What is your thoughts on how transfeminism and the TME/TMA argument opposes trans unity, or how it puts down trans men who are struggling in their own right?
why would identifying who is primarily vulnerable to transmisogyny oppose trans unity? shouldn't it strengthen our unity, as it allows our trans siblings to better understand the problems we face and ensure they don't participate in weaponizing transmisogyny against us?
are we putting down trans men and causing a rift in the community by asking to be respected and understood? is there no way to advocate for ourselves and name our unique struggles that will not be labeled difficult and divisive?
tale as old as time: you can do whatever you want to women, but when we speak up about it, we're the ones ~tearing the family apart~
Prev here, trans men face erasure and a resounding removal from the history and text books. They often don't get counted due to being considered women and not trans men
Is it not causing undue harm, or rifting the trans community, by calling trans men a part of the global elite of male privilege, when often they face the same issues and bigotries trans women face?
so howcome you're telling me about issues trans men apparently disproportionately face, but when trans women talk about issues that we disproportionately face, it's "we face the same issues"?
having male privilege does not make you part of a "global elite." read up on intersectionality
also, trans men experience varying degrees of male privilege, but the universal privilege you all share above trans women is TME privilege, and you should understand that if you want to be a good ally to trans women and build up this trans unity you're talking about
In case anyone finds it helpful because mobility aids are horrifically expensive and inaccessibleâŚ
And for those people who have access to mobility devices but might benefit from a second chair they can abuse without risking expensive damageâŚ
Erik Kondo has made a website, Open Source Innovations, that details plans for DIY wheelchairs. These wheelchairs can be made from common materials like wood, plastic, and pvc. They are lightweight and can be custom fit to the user allowing from the same degree of movement you would get from a custom chair. And they are durable and easily repairable. (he has been stress testing his latest design by dropping it down stairs, dropping it out of a car, launching it across a driveway, and throwing it off a deck). Its 12lbs and I think he said its was in the $200 ish range for parts.
He also is working on cheap, open source, accessible designs for beach chairs, off road chairs, motorized attachments (think smart drive), and so on. Plus he skateboards in his wheelchair. Cool dude, helpful info, pass it on.
It's incredibly sad people have to resort to this, but it's a damn good resource. Use it. Spread awareness. Maybe one day people with physical disabilities won't need DIYs like this. But until then, reblog and share.
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That's so amazing! It is unfortunate that so many people will need this, but very very cool that it exists
That other link seems to be broken.
Thank you so much for putting the working one!
I will add it to my original reblog as well.
the online identity and gimmick-ifying of autism is so odd. I'm diagnosed with autism and yet I barely identify with any stuff I see about it anymore. It feels like autism is being rebranded as the Silly Guy Disorder that gives you smart and beautiful hyperspecific interests. it's not that I mind silly jokes or being lighthearted about being autistic- but when the entire social movement is based around marketing us this way, I just can't help but feel isolated from it. it feels like I'm not the right kind of autistic. I'm not marketable and digestible to common audiences, and therefore I am discarded by the movement in the name of progress and acceptance. it feels foul.

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i forgot that it being pride month means performative-ass pride merch from h*zbin/h*lluva đ
oh of COURSE itâs 3 seconds after i post this that i see a (assumed) screenshot from some recent h*zbin episode of alastor looking genuinely hot. in a way i never though the show would do bc generally everything else is so Not My Type Of Shit. goddamn it fuck my stupid baka life
ok ive recovered enough from the initial emotional response to notice at least three things about the screenshot that are fucked up lol. his neck emerges from his torso from the center instead of from the back, so it looks like he has a massive hunchback⌠one arm is noticeably thicker than the other (though thatâs true of his default character art too lmao, and it isnât prominent enough to come across as intentional)âŚ. either v*vz*epop herself or whoever refined alastorâs model sheet doesnt seem to know how shoulder pads workâŚâŚ
Trans men having male privilege doesn't mean trans men dont experience transphobia. It doesn't mean we don't experience oppression at all. it just means that we can leverage our position over trans women and get away with it. We can destroy their lives and face 0 repercussions. It means if it comes between a trans man's word and a trans woman's word, he is more likely to be believed. If you're a feminist this should anger you and you should work to make sure that you're aware of this and never do it. If this makes you defensive, you're probably already doing it. Fix your heart.
Any other term is really misgendering trans men. Theres this idea that trans men are not fully, really, truly men and thats .... transphobic. Some trans men like the idea of not REALLY being men when it confers privilege for them to do so.
I'm a super queer looking guy, and yet people respect me more. They don't interrupt me. My competence is assumed. I'm credible by default. I get jobs and promotions and pay raises easier than before I transitioned.
Of course trans men often dont experience male privilege the same way cis men do. Especially early in transition. But black men don't experience male privilege the same way white men do either. Disabled men don't experience male privilege the way abled body men do.
And of course, many trans men do experience a very similar amount of male privilege to cis men AND ADDITIONALLY use their "men lite" status to avoid taking accountability for their role in misogyny and transmisogyny.
The fact that not all trans men receive these benefits equally is not a point worth considering because even cis women have privilege over trans women. Theres no transition state where trans men are free from risking destroying trans women if they arent actively being aware of transmisogyny.
I expect better of supposedly woke queers. do we know how to listen to marginalized people or do we not?
The reality is a lot of tme people don't view trans women as women. Even if they say otherwise, they treat transfems as male interlopers...and actions speak louder than words
Author of those tags here, thank you for responding! I was genuinely curious when I said âIâm wondering,â I didnât mean to come across like I was making a passive-aggressive declaration. Your explanation makes sense!
The reason I was confused is bc one significant miscommunication in this whole conversation has been the idea that ârelative privilegeâ means âno oppressionâ â a lot of transmasc TME folks seem to think that transfeminists donât recognize the transphobia that trans men do face, which isnât true. The statement âtrans men have male privilegeâ often gets taken as evidence of this though, because itâs taken as meaning âtrans men get all the same societal privileges as cis men.â
Your point about other axes of oppression makes sense. Black men have male privilege, disabled men have male privilege, etc and we never feel the need to qualify those with different terms. But those men are still unquestionably and universally thought of as men, because the axis upon which they are discriminated (race, ability, etc) is not related to gender at all. I think issues at the intersection of sexism and transphobia are uniquely complicated, in that they both deal with gender discriminationâ just in different ways. One deals with gender-based discrimination within a fixed binary, the other deals with discrimination of those who transcend that binary. Trans men are men, yes, but thereâs a significant chunk of our society that doesnât see them as such, and treats them accordingly. Thus the need to differentiate between the type of privilege trans men have versus the type of privilege cis men have: both are related to being male, but in different ways and to different degrees. Claiming that trans men have the same privilege as cis men would be just as inaccurate as claiming that trans men donât have any male privilege at all.
Of course none of this makes trans men immune to or exempt from being just as transmisogynist as cis men. They can and do leverage their masculinity against trans women just as muchâ and to just as devastating an effectâ as cis men do. In relation to trans women specifically, trans men have just as much power as cis menâ if not more, due to their access to âAFAB-onlyâ resources within feminist and queer spaces (among other things). This applies to other axes of discrimination tooâ disabled men can leverage their masculinity against disabled women just as much as abled men do, etc.
But I think itâs worthwhile to acknowledge the bigger societal picture, if only to avoid perpetuating the idea that transfeminism completely disregards the transphobia endured by trans men in society as a whole. That misconception is one of the things that drives a lot of TMEs into the arms of transandrobro rhetoric.
just cried so hard at this that i actually nearly threw up
Trans men having male privilege doesn't mean trans men dont experience transphobia. It doesn't mean we don't experience oppression at all. it just means that we can leverage our position over trans women and get away with it. We can destroy their lives and face 0 repercussions. It means if it comes between a trans man's word and a trans woman's word, he is more likely to be believed. If you're a feminist this should anger you and you should work to make sure that you're aware of this and never do it. If this makes you defensive, you're probably already doing it. Fix your heart.
"shinigami eyes is an extension for trans people-"
nope, sorry, it's for transfems specifically.
"-to check accounts for transphobia-"
you mean transmisogyny.
"but trans women started using it to-"
it was ours to begin with.
"-mark innocent people red."
mark transmisogynists red. you don't think they're transmisogynists because you don't take transfems seriously.
can you find someone marked red, look me in the eyes, and honestly tell me they haven't done any of the following:
-said men are oppressed/misandry is an issue
-defended afab-only spaces
-opposed transfeminists
-claimed transfeminist terminology is an attack on other marginalized groups
-spread rumors about a transfem being a predator without evidence
-participated in lolcowing a transfem
-tried to reclaim femboy culture as a non-transfem
-defended male socialization theory
-implied transfems are generally dangerous
-accused a transfem of being an evil pervert while excusing non-transfems engaging in similar kinks
-claimed transmascs have no privilege or power over transfems
-claimed most transfeminists are white/bourgeoisie
-called trans women bitches, cunts, or racial slurs
because any of that is a valid reason for a transfem to not trust you. i cannot stress that enough. any single one of those is a good enough reason for a random transfem to signal to others "be cautious." and if you can't understand why transfems are wary around people like this, you need to make an effort to learn.

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Sick of the TME view of gender as a radical performance of nonconformity rather than the existence of nonconformity and gender being radical through external force declaring it such. Wanting to be taboo vs the natural state of existence being seen as taboo.
yes!!!! too many of them act like it's this game of fucking with the status quo and playing with taboo that trans women have some kind of advantage in, because to be hated more is to Win, and they are Losing because their expressions of gender are seen as more acceptable
>person on my dash says âeveryoneâs been getting really transphobic lately so shoutout to trans ppl!!!â
>post is specifically tagged âtransmascâ âtrans manâ etc with nothing about trans women in sight
>and this phenomenon youâre referring to just started âlatelyâ huh. lmao youâre not sneaky
>*blocks*