it’s 2026 i cant believe “femininity is not inherently demeaning” still needs to be said in so-called ‘progressive’ spaces

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it’s 2026 i cant believe “femininity is not inherently demeaning” still needs to be said in so-called ‘progressive’ spaces

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Best brain hack is taking “this too shall pass” and applying it in the micro. The panic you feel from an argument with a friend, wanting to get on your phone when you should be studying, the absolute obsession with someone you’re crushing on, pain from rejection, utter hopelessness at a situation that is not entirely hopeless. Heavy on situations that induce panic and incentivize you to act out of turn, maybe to send a text you shouldn’t be sending or to blow up at someone or whatever it is. The antidote to knee jerk reactions is literally just “this too shall pass” and allowing yourself to feel the physical manifestation of your extreme emotion. Literally just ride it out. Even for things that can’t immediately be resolved, it makes such a big difference and prevents you from reacting in ways that you would undoubtedly regret down the line.
sure am! now help me afford my transition while I'm on break. I also need to afford to pay the prophet I've been buying all my good takes from
guys….,, being friends, like actual friends, with people you have systemic privilege over is going to involve some good-natured ribbing. it’s going to involve them complaining about [insert privileged group you belong to] in front of you or even to you. that’s not a personal attack, it’s because they think you’re cool enough to hang. it’s because they think they can express their frustration to you without you attacking them. you really want to prove them wrong?
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I've seen some posts trying to make fun of former gifted kids by comparing them to former student athletes who insist that they could have gone pro if not for a specific injury, and those posts always backfire, because my reaction to them is "You're right, we should treat former student athletes with more compassion than we currently do"
I went from being very physically active to getting the "your body doesn't make energy properly anymore" disability so I can completely understand the grief that comes with circumstances outside your control destroying parts of you you were once proud of and locking you out of the life you could have had. It's not a good feeling.
continuing from here, because transmascvoicesproject turned off reblogs
the mod has now turned off asks completely and is posting screenshots of old reddit posts about sexually abusive transfems with the usernames cropped out. how exactly does this further the "mission" of helping survivors tell their stories and heal? what kind of "peer support" project is made up of screenshots that the organizer dug through reddit to find? is it possible that the goal of this project is not actually peer support or helping survivors? 🤔
"transmasc voices project"
*look inside*
-allowed cis men to submit
-transmasc abuse victims not allowed to talk about non transfem abusers
-used fake anti trans suicide statistics invented by nazis
-no longer allows trans men to talk at all
-not providing help/using stories of potential rape victims as a gotcha against trans women who are also rape victims
continuing from here, because transmascvoicesproject turned off reblogs
the mod has now turned off asks completely and is posting screenshots of old reddit posts about sexually abusive transfems with the usernames cropped out. how exactly does this further the "mission" of helping survivors tell their stories and heal? what kind of "peer support" project is made up of screenshots that the organizer dug through reddit to find? is it possible that the goal of this project is not actually peer support or helping survivors? 🤔
several of the survivors who have had their stories used by this project discuss in their stories that they have complex feelings about coming forward because they don't want to contribute to the stereotype that all trans women are predators. they discuss not wanting others to use their stories to justify discrimination against trans women
that is to say, the stereotyping of trans women as predators makes it harder for survivors to come forward. a number of them discuss wanting their abuser to be understood as an individual who harmed them, not as a representative of their entire demographic
what do we think? will a project dedicated to documenting exclusively abuse by transfems help change the problem that makes these survivors hesitant to come forward?
one survivor shared her story only as part of a criticism of what this blog is doing, and the mod posted it as part of the "project"
in the replies the survivor says that the mod is speaking over her and is the type of person who made her healing more difficult. do we think that the mod cares about survivors? do we think that the mod thinks of them as anything besides props to harvest stories from to further their dangerous, bigoted, transmisogynistic project?
I decided with my therapist that I really really need a break from all of this--activism in general. I am going to try my best to step away for some time
but please, if you can spare some time or energy to, keep the pressure on. do not let this "project" get anywhere off the ground
even more importantly, please listen to the transfem survivors in your life. please do what you can to support transfem survivors. transfem voices project will return, but please remember that it was never about me. anyone can support transfem survivors of sexual abuse
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genuinely so glad the person doing this is incapable of recognizing when a very good coherent argument has been presented to them in their askbox and just posts them all with the weakest counterarguments imaginable 😭 the situation could be so much worse but they have made it impossible to take them or their "mission" seriously
I joke that trans men are my brothers which means I'll throw their xbox 360 out my bedroom window if they're misogynistic to me, but honestly I'm feeling so much camaraderie with my brothers seeing so many of you tear into this shit lmao. you wanna go halvsies on buying a copy of viva piñata to play together?
i’ve been getting into this hobby lately called being very deeply invested and vocal about the rights and welfare of people who aren’t like me but whose plight i still sympathize with because i feel compassion for my fellow human beings
sometimes it makes me say cringey or naïve things but overall i think it’s worth it in the end

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TME = cis men, cis women, trans men, transmasculine nonbinary people.
TMA = trans women, transfeminine nonbinary people.
Both categories include women and nonbinary people
Both categories include people with penises, and people with vaginas, and people with ambiguous genitals.
Both categories include intersex people.
TME includes cis and trans men.
Anyone claiming this is a binary is being disingenuous or willfully ignorant, which is honestly the same thing.
This one's too good to leave in the notes:
This isn't an identity. Its a shorthand way of referring to who is subjected to transmisogyny and who is not. It's not something we are imposing on people, we're describing how this transmisogynistic society is imposing or nit imposing transmisogyny on people. It doesn't care if you don't identify with fem or masc, it only cares about what you were compulsarily assigned at birth. People who aren't transitioning away from being compulsorily assigned "male" at birth are simply not subject to transmisogyny by this society. If they are trans, they're still subjected to transphobia, but not transmisogyny.
The TMA/TME divide amongst enbies describes predominantly how two people, despite neither being femme or masc, are treated completely differently based on their assigned gender at birth.
Enbies who are TMA literally cannot attend the same events that enbies who are TME can, even if their presentation is functionally identical. They are banned in big bold letters on adverts, and if they're discovered, they get thrown out and called a rapist as the door slams shut behind them.
TMA enbies are never allowed to divorce themselves from their gender assignment in societies eyes, they're never allowed to "just" be enbies, take it from someone who presented as agender for many years. The only people who took that in good faith were one (1) TME and I was dating her. Everyone else treated me like an intruder while actively bending over backwards to accommodate TME enbies.
Okay so let me get this straight. A blog called "transmasc voices project":
1) Does not provide space for transmascs to talk about their experience if the abuser isn't a trans woman
2) Provides space for people who are not transmascs as long as the abuser is a trans woman
3) However does not provide space for trans women even if the abuser is another trans woman
Did I get this right?
you're trying so hard to play word games to make this look contradictory, but you're just ignoring the core of what i've said.
no, you didn't "get it right," because you're obsessed with replacing "TMA" with "trans woman" as if they’re interchangeable terms in a dictionary. they aren't. TMA is a structural description of someone who is affected by transmisogyny.
transmascvoicesproject actively hunting down and exterminating every last shred of his credibility
rip and tear until it is done
I just cannot get over how funny it is. genuinely very relieved the blog owner is just so catastrophically bad at this. gigantic tactical blunder trying to co-opt tme/tma as if you don't look like a giant wad for going on and on about how the people Exempt from transmisogyny are just so endangered by the people Affected by it. you are kneecapping your own "mission" by framing it that way. like it was already busted before it even started. like how is even a terf gonna read that with a straight face
and then to turn off anonymous submissions when you get flak, filtering out so many people who might have had stories to submit, only to respond with the weakest arguments to so many extremely good, well-thought out explanations of why this is an incredibly dangerous idea, just platforming extremely good arguments for why your thing shouldn't exist and offering half-baked slop as counterarguments, until the blog ends up being 95% responding to backlash
he's making the job of combatting this so easy lol. maybe we do have an ally on our hands after all
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hey everyone 💖
this has been a very hard decision to make, but I need to pause transfem voices project
when I started it three months ago I genuinely did not expect it to reach the size it has. I've been told by a lot of people who do this kind of work professionally that it's very taxing and that, with the volume I've been taking on, I need to make sure to take care of myself. I figured I would go until something gave, and something giving is where I'm at now
I don't regret a second of it, because it's clear now more than ever that this is work that needs to be done, and I love every one of my transfem sisters. it's vitally important that we have spaces and resources like this to heal from our sexual trauma, and there are dangerously few of those in the world. that's why it's been so hard to decide to take a break, and I want to truly apologize that this resource will spend some time closed off
I'm going to be exploring options for making this work more sustainable when I open the project back up. I've been discussing the possibility with some transfeminist friends of bringing on additional people to help process submissions, and moving the project to a sideblog to facilitate this. that's one possibility, but I'll explore other possibilities as well during my break
I apologize, but I'd like to request that submissions are not made during this break. I still have a few submissions to process, so those will go up soon, but those will be the last submissions until the project is opened again
here are some stats: the project started on April 9th, 2026, and has run for 94 days. it has had 330 submissions, for an average of 3.5 submissions per day
finally, I want to make a call to action. sexual abuse resources for transfems need to exist much more than they do now. they need to exist far beyond the scope of me or this one project. there's nothing particularly special about me that has allowed me to do this. I realized there was a need for it and I started doing it. you can do this too. if you're reading this and you have the capacity in any way, please consider looking into what you can do for transfem survivors of sexual abuse. there are so many of us, and rarely ever do we get any of the support we need
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