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hey question about shinigami eyes: i know it marks transmisogynists red, as it should, but because many trans men are transmisogynists that leads people to believe it's "wrongly marking innocent people." i know that, that's established
but what does it mean when i see a bunch of trans women, talking about transfeminism, marked red? full disclosure i basically NEVER use tumblr on desktop so now that im on here im seeing names marked for the first time
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i like how in the few minutes before i realize thers some video game announcement thing happening it just looks like all my mutuals sponmtaneously started to posit new ideas from the horrible dimension
thinking about the time a former housemate said to me "hey I put these box fans in the living room because it's hot" while gesturing to the fans that I was actively sitting in front of because it was hot. and I said "okay thanks." and she kept standing there like she was waiting for something else so I said "am I blocking the airflow? do you need me to move?" and she said no I'm just letting you know they're here, in the living room, for circulation. and I said well yes, I did put that together. I am enjoying them. thank you. and she looked confused. so I asked "am I meant to do something with this information or are you just informing me?" and she said no I'm letting you know they're here because It's Hot In Here. she seemed a bit aggravated, and her emphasis seemed deliberate.
it took me asking three more times before she finally told me she wanted me to leave the fans where they are instead of moving them to my room or something. and I said oh! I had no intention of doing so but thank you for letting me know what the expectation is.
about a month later she brought up that conversation as the moment it actually clicked for her that I Am Autistic And Will Not Magically Intuit The Unspoken Request You Didn't Ask Me.
I have observed enough allistic communication to know that generally, if somebody points something out to you that you can already see or are already clearly interacting with, they are making an indirect request. but as I don't know what the request is, the only way forward is for me to guess (and likely get it wrong), or prompt the allistic to tell me clearly what they need.
however, allistics don't realize they do this, so asking them to say the unspoken surprises and confuses them. this is not their fault. allistics can be quite emotionally fragile and perceive directness as confrontation, so they habitually rely on indirect speech and coded language to preserve others' feelings. this is why they may find it difficult to be direct, even when asked. I have found that with enough gentle encouragement and reassurance that they are actually helping you, you too can achieve successful communication with your allistic friend or loved one. :)
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you’re gonna have to be more specific
This take is funny me because the actual analogy would be someone saying they're a fan of gay sex because they watch gay porn instead of having gay sex. And those people do exist, their called Fujoshis.
if i called her a larper on twitter i think i would get death threats so.
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Cute lil comic of our main silly guy(s) :) I LOVE THEM SO MUCH YOU GUYSSS SOBS AND WAILS ON THE FLOOR!!!!!
I know quite a lot of trans men locally who are really active in social justice projects, anti-racism, anti-capitalism, anti-Zionist etc. But I've noticed that if I'm talking to one of them about something bad that happened to a trans woman at a local trans group, he'll often respond by saying "Oh, I don't think that can be right, there must be some other explanation."
I'll explain how it often happens that trans women are marginalised and kicked out of groups for really minor infractions (or even for no infraction at all), and he'll often say something like "Thanks for the info, that's worth being on the look out for, if it comes up."
Then I'll bring the conversation back to the example of the specific trans woman in the local area who had a bad thing happen to her at a trans group, and it'll be straight back to "Oh, I don't think that can be right, she must've done something worse."
It's like transmisogyny occupies this realm of "theoretical forms of oppression" that they can acknowledge as a possibility but never as a reality that happens in their own community to women that they know. It's really frustrating.
like you tell people about transmisogyny and they think you just told them about discrimination about fucking elves or something.
"of course i support trans women. in theory. hypothetical and nonspecific trans women have my speculative full and entire support. it's pure coincidence that every actual individual specific trans woman i meet or even hear about in real life just so happens to be a bad person. trans rights."
why am i always drawn to the worst character
basically what were gonna do is blog
trans men profiting off transmisogyny once again
“It’s not “taking advantage of transmisogyny” it’s just taking advantage of transmisogyny”
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i think the fact that "transandrophobia" was coined by a detrans nazi twerf should have been the end of the conversation right there. the fact that some people are still using it is actually insane. there's no hope for you.
why tf are you calling Saint a detrans nazi twerf?????He hasn't detransitioned and He has literally never been a nazi OR a radfem. Why are we calling Indigenous trans people NAZIS?!?!?!!?!?!??!?!?!!?!
because he's a transmisogynist grifter who only cares abt getting clout by standing on the dead bodies of transfems and he called that project transandrophobia to give it a progressive mask and that word is now the banner under which a new wave of terf hate crimes are committed by people calling themselves transmasc while still referring to some mythical womanhood they somehow biologically posses. he's a fucking detrans nazi twerf because of his actions you can shut the fuck up abt what kind of marginalized he is that truly is in no way relevant and you are an ally to his project if you smokescreen for him like this
i will say that my original post was about tranlet / tomboyfriends, not saint. but still, fuck saint.
proponents of the sex binary love to say that the Essence of your sex is stored only in one or another part of your body, and this Essence loves to move the moment it's pointed out that that aspect is not always aligned with one's other sex characteristics via being intersex or transsexual
"sex is in your genitals, I mean it's in your chromosomes, uh I mean it's in the size of gamete your body produces, uh I mean it's in the size of gamete your body is intended (???) to produce"
I am way too fucking patient with you people
BETTER FUCKING BLOCK ME THEN JESUS FUCKING CHRIST
IT'S NOT FUNNY OR CUTE TO SEXUALLY HARASS A TRANS WOMAN FUCK OFF
Hold on, what?
I feel like I’m definitely missing some context here because this is not the reaction I would expect.
I’m pretty sure I read the previous persons comment wrong because I thought they were doing a funny haha and not a funny weird. I interpreted those comments to be talking about the way gender essentialism is usually neatly wrapped up in purity culture. Which is why I added the gif I did
I put those tags no because even though I was doing a bit I was also fairly certain it would piss you off. I don’t know what you interpreted my tags as saying exactly, but thinking about it I understand that it could be interpreted in several gross ways that I didn’t mean.
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help me pay for my transition and then fuck off 👍👍👍👍
"this is not the reaction id expect" yeah because you expect trans women to be constantly sexually available to you.
encouraging the new qifling
I am going to spontaneously combust this is so cute
i honestly don't really understand why "some people prefer watching gameplay online rather than playing games themselves" is treated as such a taboo when being a spectator is considered a pretty mundane way to engage with most sports, game shows, reality tv or even just like. chess.
like the usual arguments are "not everyone can afford video games or have the software to pirate" or "you can be a fan of a game's story, but not it's gameplay" but also some people just have more fun watching other people be really good at starcraft or speedrun super mario 64, i don't think that's a particularly out of the box way to engage with the medium.
i know this argument is generally about story driven games rather than competitive multiplayer games, but alot of discourse is around how "gameplay is a fundamental part of video games as an artform" and i absolutely agree but i also don't think you need to hold a controller in order to appreciate a video game on a mechanical level in the same i don't think you need a driver's license in order to be a vehicle enthusiast, like it certainly helps but some people are just kind of autistic like that.
a weird trend in this discourse is people going "video games aren't like movies or tv shows you're supposed to play them not watch em" while also going "watch a playthrough of a video game is like reading a movie's wikipedia page" which like why are you claiming the mediums strength is interactivity while exclusively comparing them to non-interactive mediums instead of like. Sports. Or Books?
non-passing trans men still have privilege over trans women
i appreciate people jumping in on the post earlier saying they've been pretty much universally read as a man for years because young trans boys need to hear that. but also. it doesn't matter if you can't even transition you still have privileges over a woman from your same demographic that's just how that works.
everyone can misgender you daily and you can have "F" on every single legal document and yet who's the demographic most likely to be forced into sex work, murdered, and regularly sent to the more dangerous prison. trans men have privilege over trans women and there's no caveat.
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trying to explain to dumbass tumblr users that saying they benefit from systemic oppression on a certain axis is not the same as invalidating every struggle theyve ever had in their entire life
average tumblr user reblogs this and says "lol I am a proud brick wall"
fun fact: no matter how much you support other trans people, if you don't respect trans women, you are a transphobe and a transmisogynist. no amount of "but look at all these TME trans people I support!" will ever change that
being trans yourself does not change this either. there is no substitute for respecting trans women and treating us right
get that through your skull or kindly remove yourself from trans spaces
