If you are the type of person who tells people over the internet to either "accept death" or kill themselves, do not follow me. Do not interact with my posts.
As a person who has struggled with mental health issues myself, I find that behavior an insult not just to my morals but the core of my very being.
If you think whatever political stance you have justifies telling random people on the internet to either "accept death" or to commit suicide, you are WRONG.
Block me if you have to, but you are still WRONG.
Because if you knew what it was like to have suicidal thoughts, you wouldn't wish them on the worst people you know. You wouldn't wish them on your worst enemies.
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Some of my Gay Thoughts (for pride month) in no particular order because i'm queer:
Our entire world is queer and nonbinary - everything exists on a complex and dynamic spectrum and multiple things can be true simultaneously. It is vital to understand that, and to be a forever teachabe person.
Being in the LGBTQ+ community does not make you incapable of racism, ableism, sexism, fatphobia etc. nor does it mean that you do not benefit from other systems of oppression. When you say "I'm gay so I can't be misogynistic" you sound like an asshole.
Also community is a verb - we are truly at a point in this capitalistic hellscape where we really need to come together in real life. That means making spaces where disabled people are at the centre, and mutial aid is involved. It means being a good neighbour, asking for help, and giving it where you can. There is no enemy but apathy.
I love being a fat femme ❤️❤️❤️ I love my lesbian boyfriend ❤️❤️❤️
The Ugly Laws were all about who could exist in public, who deserved to be killed or institutionalized, and what the "ideal" human form was. Knowing disabled and black history will set you up for truly understanding queerphobia. Dig deeper.
I don't think my gender journey has ever made sense to my family. Something got severed when I came out and they didn't stay curious about me, so every change to my wardrobe and life since then has no context.
Being transgeder proves that there is a soul beyond a body. And what could be more holy/spiritual than that?
Shaming people into taking better care of themselves doesn’t work. Making fun of them for not doing laundry as often as you think they should is just cruel.
You know one reason people may start falling behind in care tasks? Depression. You know something that can cause or worsen depression? Shame.
But also, if there’s someone in your life that can help, please don’t let shame or embarrassment prevent you from seeking that help. If you genuinely can’t keep up with certain tasks, please consider asking a trusted person for assistance.
And don’t listen to anyone disparaging you. They don’t know your life. They aren’t in your shoes. They can’t understand the difficulties you face. And ultimately, your actions don’t effect them.
Do what you are able to do when you are able to do it. Seek help if you are able and need it. You’re doing your best and that’s all that matters.
why is being on time so important for every job? why dont they just care about what you get done? why is a little bit of contibution seen as worse than you not being there? why is it all about conformity?
why is being on pace so important for every study program? why do they care about complicated assignments and scores and deadlines and limited amount of attempts? if you display skill they should let you pass no?
why is everything about climbing over arbitrary bariers rather than just learning and contributing? how many people aren't disables untill authority tells them that theyre not allowed to be tired, that theyre not allwed to take it slow? that they cant sleep in even if it's what they need? how many people could contribute to our world beutifully if it werent for unnecesery barriers to entry at every job and school? why do people have to be "good enough?" isn't every contributiom valuable? dont we all deserve our place and our voice?
#''how many people aren't disabled until society tells them they aren't allowed to take it slow?'' THIS THIS THIS#and especially in the era of long covid becoming so incredibly prevalent#the most common symptom of long covid is persistent physical and/or mental fatigue#and it's especially likely to develop if people push themselves to keep working and being active during the initial infection and recovery#and then once the fatigue is present#it's likely to worsen as a result of overexertion#often to the point of developing ME#most severe cases of ME start mild and progress due to severe overexertion#but people often don't have a choice to take it easy until their body makes the choice for them#because they can't afford to miss work#or for kids they'll get in trouble and their grades will fall#the treatment of kids with long covid and chronic fatigue by society gets me so fucking pissed#more than almost anything else in the whole world#it genuinely makes me want to punch a wall in and scream
i absolutely agree with you but i need to make it clear that that's not the point i was making. im not talking about people developing disabilities. im talking about the actual millions of people who have, in absolute terms, quite mild conditions, and would be able to to function very well and make themselves a at home in the field they desire to be in, but are gatekept.
so many people who are too disabled to pursue their passion are actually perfectly competent at what it is they want to do, but they cant always be on time, or cant always dedicate 40 hours a week, or sometimes need to leave the workplace/class/workshop/ect due to their condition flaring up.
so many computer nerds are amazing programmers but cant dedicate full time hours to it. so many tattoo artists cant develop their craft cuz they cant land an apprenticeship where their teacher lets them be late and leave early when needed. so many wonderfully curious people cant go into academia because taking less classes per year still costs the same amount of tuition per year, so it's not affordable to do the course over more than 4 years. so many people would be perfectly happy to just have a place in a simple data entry or package/paper sorting job if they wouldn't be kept at a ludicrous pace (all of these examples are real people i know). all these people are, in absolute terms, not disabled. theyre perfectly able to do preform the tasks of the occupation they want to have. but because there is a bar of conformity and amount of contribution that they must meet, rather than a "if you can help out, even a little bit, you can stay and we'll be thankful" mindset, theyre kept out of the schools and workplaces they want to be a part of. and so people who are perfectly able to preform actual relevant tasks, but not able to meet arbitrary unnecessary expectations, end up shunned. unable to pursue, poor, depressed, alone.
they're perfectly able to do what it is they want to do. just not consistently, for 40 hours a week, on an exact schedule. and because of that they get given no chances. so they cant get a job, so they're disabled, at least as far as any categorization is concerned.
Scientists invented a fake disease. AI told people it was real: Nature.com
I'm a bit frightened for the time when someone less ethical than the person that did this decides to repeat the experiment but leave out the part where they come in later and announce that it was fake and people wind up diagnosed with the fake condition and all kinds of wacky hi jinks ensues.
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It's a way of managing the needs of guest scholars and regular library patrons.
A compromise, in other words-the kind that people in charge of things have to make all the time.
Anyone who doesn't understand that doesn't deserve to be in charge of anything.
In addition, AI IS NOT an android doing its best; it is a digital blender making a best guess at what you want but are too lazy to learn to do, based off of work other people have already done. Everything Ross painted was an original work, even with recurring themes or obvious influences. It was impossible to be copy of anyone, and it was made by a real human, right in front of you. AI is not in the room with us.
i think cullen should've been able to remember cole so he'll always be a reminder of how mages are treated by templars like him. i think cole should have Spirit Freak Outs whenever cullen is near because he sees cullen's memories of hurting people. to have a spirit of compassion understand his suffering but can never stay in the same room as him. a reminder that him being victim to demons and lyrium addiction will never erase the hurt he's caused. fuck you
Sebastian IS queer!
The writers leaving his bisexuality on the cutting room floor does not erase that. If anything, it only makes him more queer.
Having your sexuality ignored by other people for the sake of (their convenience) is one of the most bisexual experiences there is!
And so is, arguably, being dismissed as "straight".
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Every year since 2023, I've done this. And now it's time again! I'm posting this already in april so that people interested can have plenty of time to start getting inspired.
These prompts can be used for anything you like: Writing, art, edits, simple headcanon posts... ✨vibes✨
You can choose to do something every day for a month, or just do a couple of prompts that interest you. There is no rule to actually post the prompt on the specific day either. Just do in whatever order you like, and do what you feel like.
You might already get inspired by some prompts, but if there's a certain prompt that you have questions on, I'll give a full rundown of all of them under the cut + some explanations/suggestions for them <3 (you can of course ignore my suggestions/explanations entirely and do your own thing! It's all free!)
Have fun! See you in june! <3
1. Two moms
Some people have two moms! If this is about two women who are about to be moms, about the kid living with their two moms or maybe someone from an outside perspective of the family is completely up to you! <3
2. Prideful baking
A popular prompt from previous years! Are they baking for a pride event? Are things getting fruity in the kitchen? We'll see...
3. Secret
What is the secret? Someone's crush? Someone's identity? Or is it... something completely else? Up to you to decide!
4. Sleepover
Things can get quite... intimate... at a sleepover. Especially when you're both the same gender and one of you is crushing on the other.
Though it could also be a very platonic sleepover where something else happens. Maybe someone comes out! Or maybe it's a queer group having a movie night and sleeping on the floor! Anything can happen at a sleepover!
5. At a pride parade
What happens at the pride parade? Did someone get lost in the crowd? Has someone painted the flag wrong? Who do they meet? Which people go together?
6. Two dads
Some people have two dads! If this is about two men who are about to be dads, about the kid living with their two dads or maybe someone from an outside perspective of the family is completely up to you! <3
7. Alternate universe
What if there was a universe where they were the opposite gender? Imagine an AU where they got together with someone else. Or MAYBE they live in a fantasy world now, or live in the modern era! So much possibilities with an alternate universe!
8. Coming out
It can be scary... but it can also be one of the bravest things you can do. Who did they come out to? How did they react?
9. Early signs
Sometimes you look back at your childhood and realize... there sure were signs :,D So, let's dig back into someone's childhood and see some moments. Or, why not see this from an adult's perspective seeing themselves in a young kid.
10. Everyone knows
The question is... WHAT does everyone know? And is there still someone who DOESN'T know? How did people figure it out if no one told them? Or HAS someone told them? What if everyone knows except for the person, or several people, involved :o
11. Pronoun change
You may notice some prompts are similar, and that's mostly in case someone wants to do a similar concept with several things and don't want to decide on just one. Maybe you could use the "coming out" prompt for someone coming out as gay and then this one for someone coming out as trans. Or have BOTH prompts be trans coming outs. Or: this is not a coming out at all, just someone updating about their pronouns and it's no biggie!
12. No labels
No labels on the relationship? No label on your identity? No label on lunchbox? You decide!
13. Alternate time period
Imagine if they fell in love, but it was 100 years ago... or 300 years into the future. Imagine if they were as gay as they are now but it's the 1960s on a roller rink. There's a lot of concepts to be made!
14. Crush
To have a crush can be nice, but also dreadful. Who's the crush? Do you think they feel the same?
15. Confession
Is it a love confession? A confession about their identity they haven't told anyone else? A confession about what they did last summer? A confession that yes, they were the one who ate up all the chips in the cabinet! So much to confess!
16. Are they dating or not?
SERIOUSLY!!! WE NEED TO KNOW!! Shenanigans ensue to find this out!
17. Proposal
Will they say yes?
18. Wedding
They're gonna tie the knot and live happily ever after! Unless you're someone angsty (though I myself don't want to be so angsty in pride month, but everyone is different!)
19. Party
Anything can happen at a party. Secrets can be revealed. If it's a "grown up" party maybe some things will be said during the influence of something...
OR it's just a pride themed party and everyone is having a gay old time and no drama happens at all!
20. Song
A song can mean so much. Maybe it's the song that helped them realize their true feelings for something or someone. Maybe it's the song that's "their" song. Maybe it's someone serenading someone else? It's up to you to decide!
21. Date
What are they doing on their date? How's it going? Are they nervous or have they gone on dates before? Or maybe you mean date as the time of day! The date was June 1st!
22. Are they gay or not?
Well, we can't just ask. So we need to speculate and find clues until they reveal the answer for themselves.
23. Gender
What even is gender? Let's ask Judith Butler /j
Is the person exploring their own gender? Or their attractions to other genders? Is it the gender of a baby that is being born, or the gender of a pet?
24. Catching up
This can be a friendgroup who haven't seen each other in a while meeting at a café and see what everyone's up to. Maybe a catching up to someone you haven't seen since you graduated. Oh! They have another name now! Sweet!
Or... maybe it's just a daily catchup about their day to someone.
25. Friends
Friends are there when you need them the most. Friends can be your family sometimes. Maybe this is about queer friendgroups hanging out, or maybe it's someone seeking comfort in their friends after a bad experience. Friends are never far away! (reference from G3 My Little Pony if you can believe it)
26. Travel
Who's out travelling? A gay ol' friendgroup on a roadtrip? Two women on their honeymoon? A solo trip for someone trying to find themselves?
27. Reunion
Is it a family reunion? Friends reunion? A reunion with the past and the present (what do I know, maybe you're someone who likes to do time travel and let younger and older people meet). Is it a school reunion where they discover some people are totally different now?
28. Rainbow
It can be a symbolic rainbow. Or a literal one. Maybe a rainbow flag. Maybe the rainbow is the friends we made along the way.
29. Family
Families can look all sorts of ways! It could be a queerplatonic couple who raise foster kids together. Three dads and a little girl. A group of people who are just roomates in one giant house.
But maybe this is a story about someone's biological family who they need to visit after coming out. Or it could be someone finding a new family that they choose for themselves.
30. Future
What does the future hold? Do they grow old together? Do they keep in contact? How far into the future do you want to go?
Happy Pride Month to those two women dancing together in the foreground of the boat scene in Godzilla (1954).
I’m sorry your romantic foibles were overshadowed by a big ass atomic lizard thing.
Edit: this post is blowing up so I’m gonna shamelessly plug my art account. Follow me and I’ll draw the Godzilla lesbians @thenonbinaryfriendnamedcrumb
2nd edit: Yes. Female friends dance with eachother. But why can’t they be lesbians?? I’ve seen people on this website ship two men for astronomically less.
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As summer is approaching, I’d like to remind everyone that you are not entitled to ask someone to cover up their scars, self inflicted or not. I don’t care if they’re big, I don’t care if they’re noticeable, or purple, or all over their body, or what. You can’t police people’s bodies.
This also goes for my friends with feeding tubes, ostomy bags, central lines and urinary catheters. People are allowed exist in bodies that stray from the expected norm.
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