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about 90% of fanfiction takes place in a utopia where men are thoughtful and unsure of their place in the world

I was NOT prepared for Russell T Davies' Tip Toe to have the mum listening to an audio of Slow Horses River/Lamb fanfic

i had to rewind and check that it was real

you'll spend so long in deep discussions of gender online and then go talk to someone in your real life family and find out they still havent gotten past "women can be good at things" and its like oh okay jesus christ i forgot some people are still on the baby steps huh

Avoidance is the worst reaction to stress. Oh this thing is giving me anxiety? And it's something I could prepare for by looking at it more or learning things about the topic? No, I will take psychological damage if I look at it directly. I will still be thinking about it and be stressed though.

More shows need to release their episodes weekly. I enjoy the agony of the wait...the yearning for the episode and the absolute high of finally getting to see it.

STOP BEING HONEST STOP BARING YOUR HEART 2026 IS THE YEAR OF RIDDLES AND ELABORATE LIES

a neutral reminder that while being a hater can be a fun indulgence you can never find long term happiness by spending your time constantly hating on things and you can’t make long term friends if the only thing you have in common is something you both dislike; you need to love and be passionate about things. being petty gets old. you need to be a lover too