bi feminism

Reminders:

You are real. 

You are in control. 

You are strong, brave, and capable. 

You have survived.

A key point in framing is that almost every anti-choice idiot says, is that they always frame it as "the choice to have a kid". Specifically, in this case:

"You chose to have sex, so you have to deal with the kid"

Let's just...side-step the puritanical root of punishing people for having sex, and the actual, sincere belief that humans Not Having Sex is something we can actually achieve, which is stupid.

People explicitly make choices to not have kids when they have sex, too.

There are whole swaths of things that men and women do, hopefully overlapping, to not have kids.

None of them are 100% effective. Even Female and Male sterilization aren't 100% effective, other than a full blown hysterectomy.

Literally, a man and a woman can both go to a doctor, have actual surgeries performed so they don't have kids, have sex with one another, and still wind up pregnant. Especially if it's in the first few years after their surgeries are performed. Surgeries which have weeks to months of recovery time, planning, and costing thousands of dollars each.

I choose to go to work every day; punishing me for getting hit by a cab as a "potential outcome" of going to work is fucking ludicrous. People smoking are more likely to get a cancer, but we still treat them in hospitals. Getting AIDS from donating blood is a thing that can happen, but you're damn well going to sue the hospital or agency that gave you AIDS. I can play the lottery every day and eventually win a million dollars, but it's still "the stupid tax" and actually thinking it will happen is the literal Gold Standard for "not gonna happen".

Nowhere else in society do we accept bullshit like that except when we're talking about controlling women and their sex lives for doing things you don't want them to. And it's always, always from the same people who want the woman to deliver the baby (which itself has a high risk of just killing the mom outright, especially in the US) who don't want to feed the baby when it's delivered, who don't want to give it a home or clothes or healthcare.

Again, that's before we even get to:

I’ve been mia this past week because of some medical issues, I would have tried to get help with this sooner, but this week has been just bad for me. My rent payment of 1215 returned. I payed about $250 of that but I still got served another 3 day this past week and owe $1005. I don’t think this is feasible to get by Monday but if I get half maybe I can work something out. If you all could also send me some positive vibes right now I’d really appreciate it. Life is just really hard for me at the moment.

140/1005

$865 left!

Paypal: paypal.me/charliechains02  

Cash App: $acefluid03

Please boost and donate if you can.  This is due today and I am still $865 short. Please boost and donate if you can

Nothing yet still at $865 and I don’t know what’s going to happen to me today

8/27 Still at $865 nothing since Saturday, please keep boosting!

I have been told, I need to have this paid by tomorrow at 5.

I’m fucked

8/29

I need to have this paid by 5pm my time.

I can not get rental assistance because it requires my landlord sending them the apartment’s W9 and they will not send that over. Please help if you can

200/865

To be clear, an ectopic pregnancy is one in which a fertilized egg implants outside the uterus. There is no scenario in which an ectopic pregnancy is viable. It will rupture and cause internal bleeding and infection. It will almost certainly kill the mother as well if medical intervention - in this case, termination of the pregnancy - is not taken.

You can take your animals with you, they only need to be vaccinated against rabies and have a microchip. Know that there are vets on the border that are vaccinating animals.

Kids are able to enter without documents. They won't be separated from their parents.

You need any kind of identification to enter right now, doesn't have to be a passport.

Covid vaccines are available for people that are entering

There is also no quarantine after you enter