I love women

part of it is a general greater separation from violence and poverty which lowers their empathy and makes the smallest direct action like giving up makeup seem like an affront to them personally, because they're frankly not used to doing things for people who aren't their immediate family members or especially boyfriends. older women tend to be more feminist in the west because of this greater lived proximity to poverty and violence and being more acutely in tune with male bullshit.

asking western women to change their lives, even minutely, for other women tends to be the turn-off, in my experience.

women of my generation and younger(im 28)will politically organize until the cows come home--as long as men exist within the group that they're organizing for. look at women mobilizing for Palestine, for BLM, for trans and gay rights. western activism is less revolutionary in general but at least they're doing what their brocialist counterparts are.

ask those same women to mobilize for their own rights and they'll say they don't have it that bad, they're focused on other More Important things rn, they're actually privileged on the axis of being female and how dare these greedy feminist bitches grab for more rights than is their share.

like you can't even convince them life is worth living without the quest for male romance. they didn't even get to the separatism part, they're still aghast you suggested prioritizing their career. "Be beautiful get married have kids" is the only life they can even visualise. they can't imagine anything else.

the combined Love For Men's Humanity & better-than-thou sneering contempt for the supposed humanity of other women and thus themselves has taken the common western First World Problem Experiencers stumbling block and built with it a fucking blockade around our hearts and minds.

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It's not that they don't really like women. I've seen several bisexual women really seem in love with another woman, and I've seen it go downhill because the lesbian relationship doesn't feel whole and complete to the bisexual woman. And yeah, dating more women probably helps rid you of that idea, but you're using real women as your target practice.

In my personal life, I've seen two lesbians have full dysphoric spirals and fully transition while dating bisexual women, and then both bisexual women left after the changes from transition slowed down and they were as male passing as they'll probably ever get. And both lesbians were quickly replaced with men. I've seen tons of bisexual women be closeted, then date a lesbian, and then claim they were never into women after the breakup. I've heard bisexual women express attraction and lust towards women (from talking about crushes to talking about porn they watch to openly flirting with me) while also saying they'd never date a woman or would never be serious with a woman.

I want a version of the vows where you talk about how he could barely afford your pandora ring and you love him even though he's balding and ain't big enough for you.