āI wasnāt gender socialized because I was bullied for being gnc as a childā itās almost as if thatās one of the most direct examples of gendered socialization
Its amazing that the ONLY time I showed any sort of 'gender dysphoria' it was when I hit kindergarten and got into 'society' as a little girl. My mum raised me and my siblings as gender neutral. Games, toys, and behaviours weren't gendered. We could do whatever we wanted and it didn't matter.
So when I hit kindergarten and teachers and people started telling me I wasn't allowed to rough house with the boys because I was a girl. That I should wear dresses because they made me look 'cute' and then when I did, they told me I wasn't allowed to run around and play because I was wearing a dress and it wasn't 'proper' as a girl. That I needed to be less rambunctious, that I wasn't allowed because I was a girl.
Yah, no fucking shit I told my mum I wanted to be a boy. I wasn't 'allowed' to do the things I wanted to do and had fun doing because everyone said I was a girl. She told me that my body was what it was and being a tomboy was perfectly fine. So I became a tomboy and everytime someone told me I couldn't do something because I was a girl I responded with 'Im a TOMBOY so I can!'.
EVERYTHING in society is designed to reinforce the gender binary. Its inescapable.
Gendies want SO BAD to frame āpink job blue jobā as a dumb fad that was created by cringy young women instead of societal norms that THEY THEMSELVES ENFORCE because women and girlsā oppression gives TIMs a boner.






























