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So I am very ace. This popped into my head and I decided to make it. That doesn’t happen often. I might make this into a t-shirt lol.

So I have struggled a lot with my identity. It confused me at first and I didn’t even believe asexual to be an option to me. I just thought there was something wrong with, or my preferences were weird. My friend started saying that this could be an option and.. well here I am.

I had a boyfriend who liked to say I wasn’t real. It was because of my age I “felt this way” and I’m not valid. I tried explaining but it was no use. I just kind of ignored it. After trying to come to terms with the fact that this was who I was, and freaking out over telling him, getting that kind of response crushed me. That’s kinda where this came from.

It has been seven years since I made this post and I am very happy to report that I am in fact still ace. Every year this post gets more and more notes and the past few years I’ve been thinking about remaking and I have finally gotten around to it.

This post is my only bit of notoriety I can claim for myself online, and I am so happy that out of all things, a message of positivity that has apparently resonated with so many people gets to represent my digital footprint.

This time I come bearing two versions. I myself have discovered I am aroace, and am now in a very loving QPR with my soulmate. Shitty boyfriends aren’t forever, but the concept of asexuality and aromanticism are.

Jacek Yerka, Eruption 

If you see smol birbs with few or no feathers on the ground, you can safely put them back into their nest, bird parents will still care for them.

scruffy feather bird = starting to try the fly thing, not very good at it. only put in nest/branch if predators abound, i.e. you have four outdoor cats and they’re licking their chops.