Butch Shit

Anyway I hope studs, black femmes, black butches, black trans lesbians, and all black lesbians have a great day😘🫶🏾

mostly this pisses me off so much because these are the people always going “omg butches are so hot i want a butch girlfriend etc” but then turn around and go “trans men lesbians? ewwwwwwwwwwww no that’s not a thing and has never been a thing” like oh my god how are you attracted to a historical identity without knowing absolutely any of the history behind it.

like haha omg butch women so hot muscular mommy step on me . sure . whatever . but if you are not willing to meaningfully engage with the actual butch community, even the parts you don’t understand and the parts that make you uncomfortable and the parts that go outside of your understanding of gender and sexuality then there is literally nothing left to say.

like you do not want to think about the intricacies of being butch and you do not respect butches or the butch identity . you want to fetishize .

honestly it kinda reminds me of how people react to tomboys. Tomboys hot and cute until they're too masculine or until they have a personality that's too aggressive. People like the aesthetic of androgyny but actual visceral experience of it beyond anything that is more than surface level.

I also find a lot of people only like butches in theory. They want an androgynous knight in shining armour, not a masc person with a complicated relationship to gender and sexuality who is more vulnerable to sexual assault and abuse due to their visible gender non-conformity. People treat butches like toys, or like they exist to protect femmes, like they're Big Strong Women who don't need comfort or protection.

I guess it wasn’t just a one knight stand, then…

“I am looking respectfully” “im so normal about this” can you bark actually? Can you hit yourself over the head w a frying pan like a cartoon wolf? Can you look at it derangedly please?

Head in my hands this cant be the thing that blows up

How can you bark when you’re afraid of the reblog button ?

“X celebrity is the most beautiful woman in the world etc etc.” Uh no it’s my mom and also a random girl i saw while i was at work once

Fat Butch Boyfriend Friday

having a girlfriend is probably crazy. you get to say shit like “this is my girlfriend”