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This is why I get so tired about “whose a real women” and “are transgender people real” and the like because it’s so irrelevant. We have group or people that have an insane suicide rate and we have a solution that reduces that by an insane amount.
No matter how you slice it no theoretical reason nor gender rhetoric can change the gender affirming care is improving more lives than it’ll ever hurt
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ive been thinking about my identity as being queer a lot lately, and i've come to a conclusion within myself that i need to stop being ashamed of myself.
i feel like there's this sort of weight over all of us as a community, an expectation. i can't really think of a word for it, but it's a belief pushed on us that we need to try and be like every other person because we're queer. we need to try and fit in, we need to try and become just like cisgender and straight people.
but why? why do so many of us feel this way, including myself? since when are we expected to be just like everyone because we aren't? it's fucking stupid and i can't believe it's taken me so long to realize this!
i'm queer, i'm LGBTQ+, i'm a fucking faggot and i'm not ashamed of that.
fuck yeah i'm wearing a whole bunch of rainbow shit with a backpack covered in pride pins.
fuck yeah im making it part of my personality.
fuck yeah my identity is really complicated, but its me! its who i am and im proud of it!
the LGBTQ+ community IS a community to those who want it to be. it isnt a problem to feel connected to other people because of it! that. isnt. a. problem. its part of what makes you happy when you see someone wearing a pride pin, youre connected to them! theres a connection!
i love queer people. i love this community. i love being queer. im shamelessly proud of being a queer and im not going to let random conservatives tell me that i cant be.
feel free to reblog and add on :)
A good thread on whether “queer” is a slur and if it should be used or not.
Still here, STILL QUEER!!
“If I am unashamed of being queer, you do not get to give that word BACK to the fuckwits who made it a slur.”
“You can deny being the thing and agree with your accuser that being the thing is awful … or you can increase being the motherfucking thing” (And a MAC grad at that ❤️ bless these tweets)
I might be in love.
This is so real. Conservatives act like theyd rather have GNC people be cis than transition but the reality is that they don't want cisgender GNC people to exist either. The gender binary as it exists today doesn't allow any middle ground between complete gender conformity and getting discriminated against. Tomboys just barely get to exist (but not without resistance) but any slightly GNC man will make the average conservative furious beyond belief.
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No need to apologize you're entirely correct
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original gilbert baker pride flag colourpicked from this specific weird al shirt
just saw a post where someone put “detrans dni” and like… hey we should be supporting detransitioned people bc if we don’t terfs will
sometimes you’re wrong about your identity and that’s ok like i used to think i was bi but it turns out i was wrong and i know ppl who thought they were trans but it turns out they were wrong and it should be ok and accepted that sometimes people don’t get it right on the first try
@shadowknight1224 this is an excellent way of putting it thank you
This touches on something I have felt for a long time, which is that one of the reasons rigid queer labels and gatekeeping is so dangerous is because if you want to encourage people to explore their gender/sexuality, there has to be a safe "Actually I was wrong" option.
I went through so very much anxiety coming out, and when I really think about it it was squarely from the fear of being wrong about it all. That I was, at heart, a cishet woman, and therefore I was appropriating a label that didn't 'belong' to me, and I would (somehow) be harming other people by doing so. There's so much more unnecessary pressure if the sword hanging over your head is "But you do have to be right about this, you can't back out once you've even asked the question."
I think that is Bad. I think it makes fewer people ask the question. I think that includes those who need to ask, and would be much happier for it.
to summarize: one of the things the Q stands for is QUESTIONING
and that is as it should be
I’d like to also submit the possibility that some people may be more prone to shifts in their gender identity than others, and that it’s not necessarily even a case of being “wrong,” so much as it’s a case of just changing over time. I know the predominant narrative we see in discourse is that a person who transitions was never their agab—and I’m sure that’s true for a lot of people! But… it’s not true everyone? I remember reading an interview with Danny Lavery after he came out, and he said something along the lines of “One day, I went to bed a woman and woke up not a woman anymore.” So if a person can change once, who’s to say that can’t change again? For example, I know Eddie Izzard (whose labels have shifted a lot over the decades, as terminology and options for gender identities identity have changed many times over since the 1980s) has said she goes through long block periods of being a particular gender, so right now she’s “based in girl mode,” (her words) but she’s previously had blocks of time being based in “boy mode,” too. So like, whose to say other people don’t have block periods like that? Maybe somebody really was non-binary for ten years and now they’re not anymore, y’know? Not feeling something about yourself forever doesn’t have to mean you were wrong the whole time. Of course, being wrong is okay too! But I’d make room for both.
i LOVE this addition, especially because it helps us move away from the "ive always known" narrative that dominates so much trans space. sometimes your gender literally changes, and it's not helpful or healthy of us to act like that means everything that came before was false or mistaken.
Gender Fluid Vibes… Nice!
I used to think everyone had a good heart and wanted to do the right thing. lol, can you imagine?
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I'm sure I'll figure it out sooner or later. How hard could it be?
