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Just would like to make it clear, BIGOTRY IS NOT WELCOME HERE. If you're a TERF, I do not respect you, and you are not welcome here under any circumstances. This is not a safe or welcome place for you. You are the pawns of fascists, and yet you consider yourself the only true feminists.
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I think some transfems are going to learn that we are going to have to let go the ones among us using their platform to actively attack the rest of us. You just know for a fact that substack article is going to be cited by every 5th transmisogynist. Whats the point of dragging a jk rowling type grifter around with you. It does not benefit anyone.
Shes over here doubling down on her "open vitriol for other transfems and material theory" article because she knows if she can survive the onslaught of reasonable people who don't like her this will transform into more internet clout. Perhaps we could do away with this one.
JK Rowling is a woman. That doesn't make it antifeminist to completely disbar her from attempting to contribute to feminism. In fact, it is fundamental to healthy feminism that her "contributions" be discarded wholesale, because the refusal to do so completely undermines the premise of feminism by trying to make space for people who don't actually have even the slightest respect for feminism.
This is a very similar situation, if perhaps less all-encompassing by way of Knight not having billions of dollars behind her bigotry, but the scale isn't the part I'm concerned with. I am concerned with the part where Dump Your Puppygirl is leading to REAL TANGIBLE HARM because of how horrifically it treats some of the most marginalized people alive. I've seen disabled trans women self-harming and dancing with suicidality left and right after reading it, and the people hemming and hawing about rejecting it are plainly okay with disabled trans women hurting even more than they already do.
Some of the double standards I've noticed among trans people:
When a transfem makes posts about how you can "you should start estrogen", it's treated like detransition rhetoric, and she's demanded to put lengthy disclaimers to prevent her from upsetting AFAB readers
When a transmasc talks about the "miracle of testosterone" or recommending you start it, it's fine.
When a trans social group has mostly trans women, it's a bad sign, and they need to represent transmascs more ASAP
When a trans advocate group is led by mostly trans men, it's just an unfortunate result of random chance
Calling a transmasc whiny is hard misgendering, as only women can be whiny. Calling a trans woman a bro or dude is fine, though. As is directly stating her feminist leanings are due to a mental illness
When a transmasc runs into a transfem kink post by accident, it's the transfems fault and she's treated as on par with sexual predators
When a transmasc directly tells a transfem that she should kiss or even have sex with him instead of arguing, it's funny
Pointing out the objective fact transmasc spaces have a misogyny problem is bioessentialism.
Saying that T makes you a strong man and E will dissolve your muscles is not.
When a transfem distrusts men due to a lifetime of abuse, it's considered a symptom of a disease at best, and can only be stopped through forcing interactions with men.
When a transmasc directly says "I can't relate to women because I'm transmasc and have dysphoria" it's just how people work and you can't force him to do anything.
Telling a transmasc he benefits from male privileged at all is considered a grievous insult, and a denial of every problem he has
Transfems must be reminded of every bit of privilege they get at every possible moment, including lack of periods or pregnancy.
This is not even close to the full list of double standards. People often mockingly ask how male privilege is supposed to help trans people. It's hard to answer, not because they epic owned me, but because expecting a single solid ubiquitous answer ignores that privilege is not that easy to point at. It's a lot of small things, each one appearing minor but building up to something that can't possible be denied... except by those that benefit from it.
Two trans girls brutally murdered in the span of a week but they're doing "hypervisibility" discourse on twitter. Feeling real privileged by my "hypervisibility" rn
ah the breadtubers believe in lolcowing too
hbomb, lily alexander, and lady emily are all participating in what amounts to a callout of a trans woman age player like it isnt the lowest hanging fruit on the hater tree. its so easy to call trans women pedos to raucous applause
hbomb's 'roblox_oof.mp3' and 'plagiarism and you(tube)' are essentially high effort callout posts when you think about it, I bet it feels really good for him to obliterate someone's presence from the internet at this point
I'm sorry am i missing something or are we trying to defend a misogynistic white man who spreads misinformation on the internet and a rich dude who lied about all his achievements, taking credit for other people's work whose also a right winger who also ran a scam?
Whats timmy tellerico or james sommerton got to do woth trans women?
no, we're saying that "leftist" youtubers are unprincipled and will go after white men grifters not because their actions are destructive but because they sound offensive, e.g. "art theft" and "plagiarism", with "exploitation of employees or marginalized writers" being incidental.
then these youtubers will go after trans women whose actions also sound offensive, like "she openly has a fetish", because they operate on bourgeois morality. imo these phenomenons are obviously connected.
his creative output on his channel of the last 4 years are vigilante actions and whether those are justified depends if you can justify them to yourself and your wider liberal audience. the trajectory is clear here.
I think it's also worth pointing out that, even when Hbomberguy does this huge takedown on James Somerton, who there are actually material complaints against [though I disageee with Hbomb's way of going about it], he still adds this disclaimer of "Oh but if you go harrass Somerton you're worse than him":
As Patricia states, no such disclaimer is given when Hbomberguy pedojackets her in response to her crime of... vagueposting about how he treated her 8 years ago. Hbomb's bleet [now deleted, but cosigned by his producer + numerous other breadtubers] is another in the long tradition of men silencing women for speaking up about how they were mistreated by them - even if those women are making no call to action, just talking about their personal experiences.
^ What Patricia actually said vs. how Hbomb reacted.
It's Johnny Depp shit.
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The suspect remains at large.
edit: please check the notes for more information, the university of washington is hosting an anti-trans event DIRECTLY AFTER this happened. the university is complicit.
edit 2 (5/14/2026): a suspect has turned himself in [link to article] and the TPUSA event was cancelled due to (sigh) "safety concerns" about "antifa" [2nd link to article]. thank you to everyone who has been putting in effort to do image IDs and keeping the post up-to-date, i deeply appreciate it.
edit 3 (5/14/2026): she has been identified [3rd link to article]. her name is juniper blessing, and she was an atmospheric and earth sciences major. there is an on-campus event for those in the area at UW to grieve her.
i'm not really seeing anyone on here talking about it unfortunately, but a 19 year old trans woman, who has now been identified as juniper blessing, was recently (may 10th 2026) stabbed to death in seattle. she has not been publicly identified by name yet.
please read the article: anyone with information should call 206-233-5000 & you can tip anonymously.
update: the suspect has, as of may 14th 2026, turned himself in and is being held on 10 million bail.
juniper was just doing her laundry.
a lot of well respected transfems online outing themselves as opportunistic transmisogynistic ableist pieces of shit. we really dont even have each other holy shit
between the puppygirl article dripping with transmisogynistic ableist hatred, and well respected transfem youtubers joining in on a 5+ years long kiwifarmer harassment pedojacketing campaign on bluesky
I think what I keep coming back to though is fucking using Marxian theory to justify when a disabled/mad trans woman becomes too much of a burden, when she isnât able to return or measure up all the labor invested in keeping her alive and functional, to determine when she is no longer worth your love by the cost of her existence.
Like as a fucking cripple whoâs recovering from surgery still I already feel guilty for accepting help. I feel so fucking guilty for still needing help from my community because Iâm not even a month out from surgery, and that combined with my usual disability/mental illness stuff means I can barely take care of myself. Community members step up to help with things but I still feel like a burden for not being better enough already.
Hearing this directly from someone you love, though? That you added up all the hours your disability, your madness, stole from them? I think that would break me.
like, it's insane we now need to go around and warn girls to NOT read the cognitohazard spiral-causing anxiety-inducing ableism article, because SOME ""transfeminists"" decided to say its "actually fine" and side with that transmisogynistic ableist piece of shit article now.
do not read the article titled "dump your puppygirl", if you're in a bad mental state, are mentally ill, like anxiety, depression, fear of abandonment, prone to spiraling etc.
it is laser precision written to trigger your anxieties and dysphoria and make you feel as bad and guilty as possible for being mentally ill/disabled, and that's not an understatement. it's as if it was handcrafted to harm every disabled/mentally ill transfem who reads it, it has already harmed multiple already. please do not harm yourself by reaading it trying to satisfy your curiosity.
like, it's insane we now need to go around and warn girls to NOT read the cognitohazard spiral-causing anxiety-inducing ableism article, because SOME ""transfeminists"" decided to say its "actually fine" and side with that transmisogynistic ableist piece of shit article now.
do not read the article titled "dump your puppygirl", if you're in a bad mental state, are mentally ill, like anxiety, depression, fear of abandonment, prone to spiraling etc.
it is laser precision written to trigger your anxieties and dysphoria and make you feel as bad and guilty as possible for being mentally ill/disabled, and that's not an understatement. it's as if it was handcrafted to harm every disabled/mentally ill transfem who reads it, it has already harmed multiple already. please do not harm yourself by reaading it trying to satisfy your curiosity.
Ima be blunt, Iâm normally mostly immune to shit like this article unless it catches me in a spiral or mental break, and this article has had me in and out of spirals since I read it around midnight last night.
I live alone. I donât have a polycule or even a committed irl support system Iâm able to rely on as a mad/crippled transfem. I am ostensibly ânot a puppygirlâ in every sense related and itâs STILL fucking me up. Do not fucking read this article if youâre disabled/mad PLEASE.
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I wonder if I just sent "tits, now" how many pups would respond to that DM with a pic of their titties for mommy~
Reblog if tgirls can enter your DMs like that.
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c3p0 is like the most bimbo coded character of all time. second movie she shows up with her new gold plated fit tits done ass done lips filled and just kinda fumbles around the whole time while r2 manhandles her and calls her a dumb bitch. third movie there's a whole political coup happening like. in the same fucking city. they can see the smoke from the jedi academy and she just tells padme "oh anakin arrived btw. oh uh. she'll be totes safe i think ^_^" the prequels end with her getting mindwiped for kind of no reason and she just goes "oh dear :["
You are a white trans girl who got out of high schools only a few years ago. You're living on your own in a one bedroom apartment, barely able to make rent each month. You make friends with a trans TME at your local library and you slowly integrate into their friend group, filled primarily with other trans TMEs. There's one other white trans girl there, but other than that, it's TMEs. You enjoy their company. They sometimes help you out with rides and groceries. Not a lot, but enough that it helps take some stress off your shoulders. You stick around with them for a good few years.
One day, the other white tgirl is cut out of the friend group. You question it, and your first friend replies that the vibes were ""off"" with her. You're unsure how to respond, so you just go along with it. You never saw her again.
Three years after becoming part of this group, you start to notice things. Such as how they'll never meet your eyes when you discuss starting to save up for bottom surgery. But they're delighted when Xander, one of your other friends, announces his top surgery only a few weeks later. You dismiss it as them just not knowing as much about transfemininity as they do transmasculinity.
One day you're walking with your friends and you go into the women's bathroom. You hear one of your friends grumble about something, but again, you dismiss it. When Xander follows you in and watches you like a hawk, you ask him what's wrong, and he just mumbles that it might be safer and easier for you to just go in the men's bathroom, you snap that it's none of his business and leave. Your other friends tell you that he just meant for the best. You walk home alone after that. They don't talk to you for a couple of days.
When you do meet up with them again, they seem happy. Your first friend shakes your hand and says "hey man, nice to see you again!" You stiffen, surprised. They seem to realize what they said, and claim that they didn't mean it that way, that they just used it as a general phrase and wasn't directly referring to you. It doesn't do anything to stop the hurt. You're miserable in your own skin for the next couple days. They keep telling you it's not how they meant it, but they don't apologize. Eventually one of your other friends snaps and tells you to just calm down and stop making a mountain out of a molehill. You excuse yourself and walk home again. The next day, you find that all of your friends have blocked you, with the friend who misgendered you adding a text that it wasn't personal, you were just bringing bad vibes.
You're sad for a few years. You don't befriend anyone else until you move to another area. Here, you meet a group of almost entirely trans girls. White-dominated, but there's a Black tgirl there as well, and two TME enbies. Many of these girls have similar experiences to you, so they seeked out company in other trans girls. You get along well.
One day, you're watching one of your TME friends talk to the Black trans girl. They let a "dude" slip out when referring to her. You jump in and correct them, and they quickly apologize. The Blacj tgirl doesn't not accept the apology, but she doesn't look very happy for the remainder of that day. You pull her to the side and she tells you that she knows they didn't mean it, but it doesn't make it hurt less, and she felt that her hurt wasn't acknowledged at all.
You tell her that you understand.
A couple weeks later, it happens again, and this time, the Black tgirl snaps and tells them not to call her that. Georgia, a white trans girl, jumps in and tells them to break it up. Tells the TME not to say that, and tells the Black girl to calm down because they didn't mean it. The Black tgirl looks at you as though hoping you'll jump in, tell Georgia that she had a right to be upset. After all, you understood.
You look away. You think the Black tgirl has a right to be upset, but you're worried about causing a bigger fight. You don't want to be cut out of this friend group too. The meetup is tense after that. The Black tgirl is clearly unhappy, but this time when you try to talk to her, she refuses and said she couldn't trust you. The words sit in your heart like a festering sore over the months.
One day, Georgia makes a joke about slavery, side-eyeing the Black tgirl as though she expects a reaction. You and your friends all laugh, except for her. The Black tgirl just asks if you really all found that funny. Georgia tells her not to be a killjoy, that it was just a joke. A couple of your other friends nod subtly. The Black tgirl retreats and stays on the fringes of the group for the rest of the day. And once again, she refuses to talk to you when you press her about it.
You leave her alone. That's clearly what she wants.
The next day is a discussion about white supremacy. The Black tgirl is talking about how one of her cousins was recently assaulted by a cop. She says it would have never happened if he was white. A bristling sensation falls over the rest of the group. Another girl protests that white queer people also get targeted, to which the Black tgirl responds, "at a disproportionately lower rate than Black people, especially Black queer people." One of the TMEs snaps that it isn't a competition. Another girl adds that she's tired of everything being made into a race issue.
The Black tgirl can't get a word in as more people weigh in, and the conversation shifts to transphobia and ""infighting"". She keeps getting told to wait her turn. Eventually, she storms out, flipping you all off as she leaves. Somebody breathes out a "thank god." The conversation shifts again. "I always thought something was off with her!" "She's such a bitch, I'm sick of her attitude!" "She thinks she's better than us." "She makes issues out of the tiniest things." "She's manipulative." "I'm glad she finally showed her true colors."
You sit there, and let them talk. You're still rattled by how angry she got. You felt a little bad, but this was probably for the best. She didn't trust you anyways. She clearly didn't need your support. So you accept the group's decision to cut her out. You don't see her again. You don't try to reach out.
Clearly she just wants to be alone.
neither trans nor poc but iâm sharing this (with the addition of @lainpsx âs excellent tags) anyway because itâs so so so important.
you are not immune to bigotry even if you have been the subject of it.
if you donât acknowledge your own capacity to harm you are far more likely to cause it.
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Nothing happened. She shared a place with a trans woman, nothing happened and she didn't notice until someone else told her.
And now she's acting like she was harmed retroactively just by having existed in proximity to a trans person.
Ridiculous.
Transfemme eggs being blamed for the bullying theyâre forced to endure growing up is literally the most classic misogynistic bullshit
They tell us to stop bringing it on ourselves as if anyone asks to be targeted and harassed
âHey, we donât have the energy to make your abusers stop, so you have to learn to be on high alert all the time so they find someone else to abuse insteadâ
