Barafundle Baying

hot flaming take i’m abt to slap you with: it’s not acceptable to punish children for their grades, no matter the circumstances.

lost a follower for this one!

Can't reblog enough.

This this this this this! Punishing your child for bad grades fucks them up in the long term and is, in my personally experienced opinion, a form of emotional abuse. I still have grade anxiety because of my mom's reactions to me getting fucking B's, not to mention an aversion to being proud of my grades because they were never good enough.

Also, it fucks you up when you see other kids getting paid for good grades when you already get them because anxiety and that is what is expected and it just shows you how the system works. 

me, as my laptop fan suddenly becomes louder: what is it?? what program?? who is doing this to you????

*opening task manager* Who do I need to kill?

As I kept reading my eyes got wider and wider

this is absolutely amazing

Straight women should unionize

What the actual FUCK

This right here is a HUGE red fucking flag. If you’re in a relationship with someone who wants complete control over finances, especially to the point where you don’t even have access to money, this is an attempt to control and isolate. They will use ALL sorts of excuses. “I’m better with money” “You spend too much” “You’re too impulsive” etc. It has nothing to do with looking out for you or money. It’s straight up abuse and will likely lead to worse.

Also, women need to be independent in every way they can. And they also need to know what’s going on with their finances, even if their husband makes all the decisions or whatever bs goes on. Because (true story), one day that husband could die and you’ll find out that you’re in a crazy amount of debt that you never knew about because he didn’t tell you shit and that gets to be a lovely surprise after the funeral.

Same goes for the opposite men. I’ve seen it happen where a woman controlled all the money and was financially abusing the man. It happens to everyone and keep yourself safe.

And this isn’t a “straight” thing. It’s an abusive thing. 

Right, because if you don’t think this happens in queer relationships, you are sadly mistaken.