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Dense this was like making me choose between my own children

It took me a solid 2 minutes, but I was able to choose.

gifting lil heart shaped lollipops to all my mutuals

listen i will never support anyone getting booed or yelled at on stage when they go up to accept an award because at the end of the day it’s the execs of the grammy’s who are the ones at fault for creating a rigged system HOWEVER the ‘people like me don’t usually win these’ part of the acceptance speech when said white male artist has been given nothing short of exponential praise and worldwide success for the last DECADE of his career is the probably the most unhinged thing that could have ever come out of his mouth and goes to show just how absolutely delusional and tone deaf the 1% are

this isn’t to say that the other 1% candidates like adele, beyonce, and taylor swift aren’t tone deaf in their own unique millionaire way but it’s a special kind of insult when a publicly non-queer white male celebrity that uses queer fashions and styles like a costume that they can take on and off (like how the kardashians use black culture) for their own benefit and to reap all the rewards while other minority groups don’t and then have the audacity to say that they are the actual underdogs of the industry is just really….something else

to further prove my point, watch how the general public treats harry styles, a non-queer man who dresses eccentrically and exclusively dates women publicly and gets praised for it, in comparison to sam smith, an openly gay genderqueer who has recently begun to dress less gender conforming than before and has seen an exponential rise of both fatphobic and homophobic comments on their videos because of it. or other artists like lil nas x who received death threats due to the rampant homophobia in the rap industry. so harry thinking of himself as any type of underdog when he is a publicity non-queer white male millionaire artist who wears nail polish sometimes is so absolutely absurd that it’s not even funny

*through gritted teeth* you are not a child taking a test with the purpose of getting the highest score, you are an adult trying new things and finding ways to enjoy your life, make mistakes, be a beginner, be mediocre, be where you need to be, be unlikeable, just. be.