it's Stephanie Shawty.

Me: sees an opportunity to be petty

Me: 

That’s one thing I can say porn has kinda taught me. Back in the day I was super shy about riding dick. It’s one thing to take the strokes from a dude but when you’re on top, you might as well be on stage with a spotlight on you. He’s looking right at you, your face, your tits, your hips, everything. Not that men can’t assist with movement in that position, but it’s your time to shine! Move in various ways that will really show him how great your pussy feels:

Put your hands together on his chest/tummy, straighten your arms and just bounce that ass girl. Lift your hips off him a bit and put your weight on your hands and feel that dick moving in and out of you. Raise your ass up as high as possible even, so that it aaaaalmost slips out but doesn’t, right at the tip.

Bounce straight up and down. When I do this, I like to spread my ass apart. That way I’m getting all the dick and he’s getting every centimeter of this pussy. If you do this in reverse it’s a dope view for him.

Lean forward and lay on his chest but across his shoulder and move your hips up and down but maybe a little faster. For me, this is one of the quickest way to make a guy cum on top. Leaned over and moving my ass at a quick pace. With you leaning in that direction he’ll see them cheeks moving all witcha ways too. Win. 

No bouncing. Just grinding. If you just grind hard, back and forth, back and forth, he will be able to feel deep inside of you. Honestly, if you can’t really handle all of him, this may not be for you. You’re likely to feel him damn near in your tummy if he’s really packing. This is one of the best ways to make me squirt. Sometimes the build up is so overwhelming I can hardly keep going. Usually the guy realizes this is some dope shit that’s happening on his dick and he’ll grab my hips and push and pull me til I cum. Teamwork.

Turn around! Riding reverse can take the awkwardness out of looking directly at someone or weird eye contact. Plus this way he’s got a great view of his dick sliding in and out of you. You can do the same moves in this position but be mindful of the way his dick lays. If his dick lays in any other direction but downward, it may slip out easy when you lean forward. Just something to consider. 

I know damn well I’m not the only woman who gets winded than a motherfucker on the dick. My thighs be sca-reeeeeeeaaaaming but I just do my damnest to keep keeping on; especially when I reeeeeally want this dude to cum. Using his body as leverage can help you out A LOT. When you’re facing him, lean on his chest, tummy, shoulders. In reverse, it’s awesome to use his legs. Tell him to put his legs together, grab his ankles or shins and let that ass fly high. You’ll be putting some weight on him and it’ll relieve some of the strain on your lower half. 

Lean back! While reverse, lean backward with your hands on his chest or have him grab you by the arms and push yourself off of him, up and down. This is exhausting position but it used to my make a certain someone bust with the quickness:)

1. This SHOULD go without saying, but wash your vag and ass before hooking up. Use a mild unscented soap with water, or an OBGYN approved wash like Summer’s Eve (warning: products like Summer’s Eve do a great job of cleaning your pussy, but because they absorb some of your natural moisture, they may make you less wet during sex. Try washing yourself an hour or two before having sex, and use lube just in case.)

2. Do kegels (squeeze your vaginal muscles) when ya man is fucking you. It makes it tighter for him, and less likely for you to queef.

3. On queefing: it’s literally just air escaping your vagina from being fucked too fast in a certain position. Yes, it makes an embarrassing sound, but any mature man will know that its totally normal and nothing to be grossed out by. To lessen their occurence, do kegels (both during and not during sex) to strenghten vaginal muscles, arch your back more, slow down the sex pace a little, and try positions that it doesnt typically happen in (doggystyle is usually the most queef-likely position).

4. Make👏your👏blowjobs👏wet👏as👏fuck👏. Literally slobber or slowly spit on the dick while going down on him. It makes it feel better for him, and it makes it easier for you to slide it down ya throat.

5. If you can’t deepthroat: do #4 above, and suck on the head while jacking off the shaft. Drives them crazy.

6. Make eye contact while sucking dick every once in a while. I like to look him dead in the eye as I run my tongue up his shaft, from base to tip.

7. When deepthroating, swirl your tongue around the base of his shaft for extra stimualtion as you take him in and out of your mouth.

8. Never ever ever use teeth on his dick or balls unless he specifically tells you to.

9. Be careful with his balls; don’t squeeze or suck too hard. I actually dont even touch the balls unless he asks me to, every guy is different in terms of sensitivity down there.

10. Before hooking up, rub a vanilla-scented lotion on your ass cheeks, inner thighs, tits, and upper pubic mound. This’ll make your most sexual areas smell amazing, and husky smells like vanilla are proven to be more of a turn on (these smells trigger release of endorphins). Note: DO NOT PUT SCENTED LOTION ON YOUR VULVA OR ASSHOLE.

11. Eating pineapples and cranberries make your pussy taste sweeter.

12. If you shave your pussy, make sure to use a fresh blade, shave in a diagonal/horizontal direction against hair growth, and pat your pubic mound with tea tree oil after shaving for a smooth kitty.

13. Shave your asshole too: I prop my leg up against the tub/counter and go at an angle that way. There really is no perfect system to doing this unfortunately.

14. Brush your teeth or chew some gum before sex. Basic hygiene, people.

15. This is gonna sound weird as fuck, but stretch before sex. Make sure your legs are warmed up before going over to hookup, because y'all don’t even know how painful it is the next morning after having your legs being spread farther than should be physically possible.

16. Talking dirty can take your sex game farther than you’d imagine. Use little phrases like “you eat/fuck this pussy so good,” “I love this cock of yours,” “just like that,” “you feel so good inside me,” “i love how big you are,” “you’re gonna make me cum all over this dick/face,” “your cock tastes so good,” etc etc etc.

17. Things to do while fucking in missionary, moan in his ear, gently bite/lick his ear, kiss his neck, bite his collarbone, whisper “fuck” whenever he hits a good spot, run your nails up his arms/back, run your fingers through his hair, etc.

18. Don’t just lay there while he gives it to you; throw your ass back on that dick during doggystyle, rise your hips against him during missionary, meet his thrusts for a deeper fuck.

19. Keep a hairtie with you at all times if you have longer hair. Throwing your hair up makes it get in the way a lot less.

20. Don’t pressure your partner into doing something they aren’t comfortable. If you aren’t sure about whether or not they’re okay with something, literally ASK “Is this okay?” “Does this feel good?” “Do you want to _________?” “Tell me where you want me, baby.” Consent should not be a mood killer.

21. When blowing a dude, moan around his dick once in a while. The vibrations feel good for him, and letting him know you’re also having fun pleasing him can be a huge turn on.

22. Play with your clit while he’s fucking you. Not only does this provide more stimualtion for you, it makes your pussy wetter for him, and gives him a nice view.

23. Pee after sex.

24. Always always always use protection. If he doesn’t wear a condom, and you don’t have your own contraceptives, don’t fuck. You can always just go down on each other and call it a night.

25. If he fucks without protection, buy Plan B as soon as possible. The sooner you take it, the more likely it will work. It’s available in any local pharmacy, usually near the pads, tampons, and condoms. $50 is a small price to pay for avoiding an untimely pregnancy.

26. Pulling out does not mean you can’t get pregnant. Precum can have residual sperm cells left over from previous ejaculations, even hours later. While the chances of getting pregnant from precum are slim to none, use protection just in case.

27. Drawing out foreplay as long as possible can make for fantastic sex. Give him a massage, suck his dick nice and slow, tease him, strip slowly, feel each other through your clothes. Building up that tension can lead to a mind-blowing fuck.