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Let’s talk about the fabulous aromantics out there

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WHAT’S UP IT’S THE GAYEST MONTH OF THE YEAR
I don’t want to have sex at all. Ever, with anyone. I think I might be broken.
It’s fine to not know your sexuality. It’s fine to feel 100% sure of your sexuality one day, it then realize that label is wrong the next.
I came out as gay when I was 13. I was so sure of that label for years. But here I am at 19 realizing that I actually have no fucking idea what my sexuality is.
I have my whole life, however long that is, to figure it out. It’s not a race. I think for now I’m just going to stay not knowing.
ace_irl

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I have a question? Are you allowed to identify yourself as asexual if you’ve really felt like you connected to the term only recently. I’ve never felt like I could relate to my friends whenever they would talk about their experiences. My mind can’t comprehend having sex with someone so fast unless it’s with someone you have a deep connection with for years but I’ve never had a partner before. Is that ok?
The experience you're describing sounds like an Ace experience to me, but that's not the point. The point is:
You're allowed to identify yourself as Ace if you want to. That's it. All that's necessary for you to be ace- is for you to feel like that's the label for you.
Don't let anyone anyone tell you you must abide to a certain set of rules or check certain boxes in order to identify as Ace-or as anything for that matter. The only thing that matters is that you feel comfortable and happy with the labels you choose to use or not use.
I hope that helped a bit, you're very welcome to message or ask again ✨
being ace isnt tragic or weird, being ace doesnt mean you're "missing out" on anything. being ace/realizing im ace is probably the best thing thats ever happened to me
don’t make me tap the sign…
I’m calling this segment
✧・゚: *✧・゚:* Just Ace Things *:・゚✧*:・゚✧
I'm only 17 and I identify as Ace/aro so this may be premature thinking. But like, if the chance ever arose would it be against advice to try sex? I've never wanted to or had the urge to but people keep telling me the equivalent of "don't knock it till you try it" and it kind of has me feeling bad/questioning things. I mean they could be right, right?
Hi! First of all I want to start by saying I'm no authority, nor anyone is to tell you what to do with your body and sex life. Only do what feels right and positive for you.
In my opinion, having sex and being ace is a very personal decision. Every person has a different feeling towards sex, some people (aces, but not only) are sex positive, sex negative, sex repulsed, etc. Which means whether or not you feel sexual attractions, you can still want or not want to have sex.
I think you should ponder a bit on your feelings towards sex, and based on that decide if you wanna try it. And no matter what you decide, it doesn't influence whether you're ace or not. You can like sex and be asexual, and hate sex and be allo.
Most importantly remamber that you're not under any obligation to try sex, no matter your sexuality, and only experiment if you want to and feel it's right.
I hope I could help a bit, and good luck in your journeys 💖✨ feel free to message or ask again if you feel like it 🌈

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Hi everyone!! I'm finally back.
Had a bit of a mental health drop, and also took some time to ponder my sexuality too.
I'm now in a wonderful relationship with a wonderful girl and we even moved in together a while back! I'm very happy with my life right now and I felt like it was a good time to also go back to managing my loved blog.
I'm gonna be answering asks and messages again, and hopefully also posting some nice things.
I really wanted to thank all of you for sticking up with me and being patient with me ❤️
With a lot of love, Eli 💖
As a mostly closeted ace, I just want to give a shoutout to those not out. It’s okay if you don’t come out yet. It’s okay if you only want to come out to a handful of people. It’s okay if you want to come out but feel like you’re trapped. It’s okay if you never want to come out at all. It’s okay if you’re not out for fear of rejection. It’s all completely your choice. No matter what you choose to do or who you decide to come out to, this blog and I will be there for you. I love you all. Stay strong.
Hey so can I ask something? I don't know if this was a case of ace phobia since a lot of people says it doesn't exist? I've known I'm asexual since 15 yo and when I started college I told a friend that I was ace but she laughed it off and said I just wanted to be different and unique and it really hit me off, like?? It was the opposite I tried to fit in, I didn't understand why they were so desperate to date someone and I just really don't know what to say in those situations, any idea???????
First of all I'd like to apologize for taking a thousand years to answer your ask 😅
What your friend said was pretty mean and invalidating. Laughing someone's coming out is a terrible thing to do and I'm sorry you had to go through that.
Now, was it acephobic? Honestly idk. I myself have problems trying to figure out what counts as acephobia and what doesn't. But honestly? It doesn't matter. Accusing you of just wanting to be different (aka the age-old "you're just doing it for attention" shtick) is an ugly and hurtful thing to do and a better (or more knowledgeable) friend wouldn't have done it.
As for how to handle situations like this, you have a choice. You can either move on (ignore what happened), try to educate that person and explain to them what's wrong with what they said/ did and how it affected you, or you can cut ties (aka cut toxic people out of your life). It just really depends on how important the person is to you and how much mental capacity you have to put to this. For example, when a family member I care about said something aphobic I explained to them in detail why they're wrong and why it hurts me, bc I wanted to have a good relationship w them and decided to put some work into that. On the other hand, when an acquaintance was being aphobic towards me I just.... Decided not to interact w him. Bc I didn't care enough. So anyways it's your decision and really depands on what you choose to do.
But remamber, it's not your responsibility to educate ppl. If you do it, make sure it's bc you want to.
Hopefully I was able to help just a bit, feel free to reach out again ✨💜
Hi everyone 💜
Sorry I haven't been active+replying lately, my mental health was acting up and I took some time off of everything, but I'm back now and hopefully I won't dissappear again lol
Thank you all for your support, it really means a lot an I really do love each one of y'all 💜✨💜
~E
I would like to point out that this moment right here is so cleverly put and genuinely beautiful that it could work for everything people want and need to take from it.
I legitimately cried, because I didn’t only see how a healthy and respectful relationship should work, I also saw a beautiful and respectful way to legitimate and support asexuality, which is something I’ve never seen in a show, especially related to a same sex couple (a lesbian one nonetheless).
As an ace lesbian this means the world to me, because I always have to deal with over-sexualized characters and stories, and though I’m kinda used to it by now, it still bothers me, because I just wish people understood that not everything revolves around sex, and that you can be in a healthy and happy relationship regardless of it involving sex or not, as long as you really love each other.
So, thank you One Day at a Time, you did good.

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You’re allowed to feel however you want about dating or having sex. No matter what your orientation is.