you are playing with an imaginary toy in an imaginary sandbox. fandom is all about having fun and letting your imagination run wild. canon is only a suggestion, not a rule. how much of canon you will follow, if any, is entirely up to you.
please stop trying to apply rules on hobbies and something thatâs supposed to be your comfort place and a form of self-care.
âis it okay if I think thisâ âis it okay if I imagine thatâ itâs YOUR little world that you create for yourself and your own enjoyment. you literally do not need strangersâ opinions or permission when it comes to a hobby that doesnât harm or affect anybody in real life. again, itâs YOUR imagination, YOUR world, YOUR creation. you have all the power and the freedom to:
headcanon whatever you want, however you want
ship whatever you want, however you want
write whatever you want, however you want
draw whatever you want, however you want
create whatever you want, however you want
reject whatever you want, however you want
as long as youâre not harming anybody in real life, how you have fun with fictional characters and your imagination is no oneâs business but your ownâs.
last but not least: fiction is not, and will never be, a reflection of your real-life moral compass. what you like in fiction does not reflect who you are in real life as a person. kill that cop in your head.