@hobbitdactyl i can definitely answer your questions because ive been seeing this post for ages and have read the reusable pads testimonies so i gave it a shot.
i got the trial pack from cariona because i was unsure which size would fit my needs most. it came with a liner, regular, overnight, xl and a pouch. after testing them all, i realized i only need the liner, regular and overnight pads and not the XL ones cause the XL is too long for me.
when i go out, i bring my double zip pouch (that i bought separately) so i can store my used and unused pads in one just one pouch. after changing, i fold my pad to prevent it from smelling and leaking and i put it in the double zip pouch until i get home.
for cleaning, i personally just put the pad under the shower while i wait for hot water (to remove the blood) then i handwash it with the soap i use to shower. i then air dry it and wait until i’m ready to do my laundry and just wash it with all my clothes so its extra clean.
the pads i bought came with a manual on how to use it and wash it. their website also has tons of reviews that i read before buying cause i dont want to regret buying this.
if you have any questions or want to see photos or anything, hit me up (anyone can message me too)! im just so psyched that i can FINALLY talk about my reusable pad experience without feeling scared that someone will judge me or think im disgusting or odd. i hope we can normalize talking about our cycle more so we can all share tips!