The Importance of Femme DIY and Home Renovation
I would say I’m lucky.Â
When I was in middle school, I had found a bunch of old plywood and 2x4′s in the woods behind our house. I stole my dad’s hammer and some galvanized nails from his tool bin and attempted to build a tree house. I was held together by crooked nails and too many of them at that. When I had asked him to buy me a hammer and tools, his initial response was no...and then I guess when he realized I was going to do it anyways, he bought me a box of nails and a lightweight hammer (because being a less than 100 lb 6th grader, I was not swinging a full size hammer).Â
My dad made sure I also knew the basics or car care, I’ve changed bellows boots, brakes, spark plugs, etc. II’ve changed tires in the most inconvenient of circumstances without issue. In general, I know my tools, the difference between a philips and flathead (straight slot) screwdriver...these things are basic knowledge to me. When I don’t know how to do something, I google it.Â
I furthered my ability of general tool usage by going through the VCU Sculpture program. I know how to weld, I can use a table saw, clamps are a girls best friend, and you better check me on my beveled edges because they are sharp. Nothing makes me more excited than getting Harbor Freight coupons.Â
So, I’ve posted 2 images that have really inundated my brain in terms of society’s perception on women and DIY. I can’t say either image is surprising. The first one: a high heeled shoe and a butter knife (i.e. a hammer and screwdriver). When I was younger, this image used to make me so mad, but honestly, I have to look at it as something more empowering.Â
I mean, have ya’ll SEEN what I can do in heels and with a butterknife? Amazing things, that’s what. Women are creative and innovative. Honestly, we don’t need a standard tool set, we can in fact fix shit with a high heel and a butterknife. But every time we pick up a hammer or screwdriver, or jigsaw, in little tiny ways, we’re breaking through “gender norms” (which are stupid to begin with, I mean, every man I know cooks 1000x better than I do and I’m not even sorry about that).Â
So, back to the blog title, “The Importance of Femme DIY and Home Renovation”. Why do I personally think this is important? Is it because it defies expectations? Is it because when something goes wrong in my house, the first few people I call happen to be men?Â
Well, its a little bit of all of the above. I think in many ways, women’s abilities to fix things has been undermined and discouraged. I’ve seen enough things that say “You can build her a house but she’ll make it a home”. Yeah, no, I’m going to go ahead and just do both, thank you very much, quite simply because I can. And really, that’s the basis of it all. I can and I will.Â
Shoutout to all my femmes out there doing the dang thing. We know how often people doubt our abilities and knowledge of fixing things and getting the job done but also shoutout to all those who believe in us and encourage us.Â
My new years resolution for all my femmes out there is to learn how to use a new power tool.Â
Side note: the pink tool set, I’d probz actually use that because I lose my tools all the time and you can see that pink from space.Â