So this is me
officially coming out. Well, pseudonymously, on tumblr, where no one I know in meatspace reads this, but still. I’ve put bits and pieces of this out there, in various places, to various people, before, but here I am putting it in one place all in a piece. Why? No special reason, except that I promised myself that this year I am going to be myself, bravely.
I’m in my 30s. I’m agender, aromantic, asexual. I prefer they/them pronouns, for now. I prefer to be known as queer, because it feels like my whole package in one nice short word. I’m a pagan with a strong relationship to tricksters, witches, and nighttime gods, and it feels to me that queer often encompasses that too.
I’ve spent a lifetime hiding all this because it was never really the right time, the right place, the right whatever to come out, but I am approaching 40 and frankly no longer give a shit.
So, hi.
Also, for the record, I go through phases of never being on Tumblr and then binging the blogs of people I follow, plus I’m shit at tagging. And if I reblog a post multiple times it’s because I have a shitty memory. I hope none of that makes me too obnoxious.






















