not the end of the world but it is annoying when people complain about being "pressured" to transition, and the "pressure" is usually just a suggestion or light joking from friends, or a miraculously pro-trans medical professional who actually tells people they have options
like ok it may be annoying for you, but some of us are being forced not to transition through legislation, violence, or denied access to care. the overwhelming majority of the pressure is against transition. god forbid anyone tries to provide a little encouragement in case they're talking to someone who actually needs to hear it
you cannot do anything in case someone is trans without people raising a stink. you have to assume they're cis until they say otherwise, but even after that you're supposed to treat them like they will imminently change their mind. you have to gender a baby by their genitalia until they're old enough to correct you, you can't let children choose to take hrt, you can't tell grown adults transition is an option
we are told since before we even start forming memories that we are one thing, we are forced through traumatizing, unwanted puberties whose effects we can never fully reverse, and kept in the dark until we just happen to stumble upon the realizations that will save us, and then we are made to fight tooth and nail to get the care we need "just to be safe," just in case we change our fucking minds and comply decide we were cis all along
you're never more than a few miles from multiple opportunities to buy cigarettes, but you have to do backflips through flaming hoops while reciting Shakespeare's Sonnet 15 in ten languages if you want the privilege of taking some pills that make your skin softer and change where your body fat sits
even a beginner to "buying a gun" speedrunning can get a sub 1 minute time, but "getting hrt" speedruns are more like those really long animal crossing speedruns where they spend multiple real life days catching all the bugs and filling out the catalog, except even then it's not close
