New Year's Resolution Pitfalls
Problem: Ah! Is that time of the Year again, when we all think about what we can be like for the next year. Mr./Mrs. Eager beaver lines up at the gym door, right on January 1st; so dedicated and eager to try and drastically change every aspect of their lives, all at the same time:
I'm going to lose weight!
I'm going to exercise 5 days a week!
I'm going to look like Arnold Schwarzenegger!
I'm going to eat healthier
I'm going to stay away from junk foods!
ETC..
WOW! It's tiring just looking at that list. Each and every one of these goals isn't going to happen when you wake up Jan 2nd! So why bother make a huge list and end up not finishing any of them? Most people that put high expectations for themselves ends up getting disappointed on what they can actually accomplish.
How so?
You see, the problem with Eager beaver is that, he tries to accomplish multiple tasks at once, even if it is successful for 1-2 Weeks, once life gets in the way, it all falls apart.
We all have a finite amount of willpower - think about it as the sand in an hour glass, and picture the tiny hole in the middle (hole that the sand goes through) as your goals. The more goals you try and complete in soo little time and willpower, the faster your going to run out of your sand. This is why everyone gives up on their new years resolution mid-way through January.
Solution:
Think small. Even though your intentions are good, if you make drastic changes all at once your never going to accomplish any of them. By thinking small your allowing yourself more SAND (Willpower), to provide you the right amount of boost to accomplish your goals. Not only do you need to think small, but you also need to ACT!. It's like praying to win a lotto jackpot, but haven't actually gone ahead and buy a ticket! You need to prove to yourself that your DEDICATED, and really wanting a to change, stacking up your willpower and using it one goal at a time.
So Keep your Willpower Full!
On top of that, make the habit so small that it’s almost impossible to skip. For example, if you want to start exercising every day, start by going for just a five minute walk in the morning. After a few weeks, you can up the habit/exercise to 10 minutes, and then up to 20 minutes and so on. But for now, “aim small, miss small.” Gradually increase as you develop your new habit.
















