alexkilmartin

Welcome to Kinktober 2025!

note: this encompasses a small spectrum of kinks,  fetishes,  and dom/sub dynamics some of which go beyond sexual acts themselves.  it’s not comprehensive as i’m drawing more from my own experience and knowledge.  i might do more research to include a wider variety in the future!  only continue if comfortable with these subjects. 

SEXUAL & NONSEXUAL WORDS

❝  before we begin,  i want you breathe with me.  match my inhale…and exhale…look me in the eyes.  that’s it.  just relax.  ❞

❝  i want you to know everything i do to you,  i’ve tried on myself first.  i know just how to touch you,  how tight to make your ropes,  how hard to make each hit.  and i’ll only do what you’ve agreed to.  ❞

❝  may i please touch you now?  ❞

❝  you stopped counting.  start again from one and no crying. ❞

❝  you’ve been a good [chosen term],  so patient.  you can cum now.  ❞

❝  would you like to cum?  do you think you’ve earned it?  ❞

❝  you can cry,  but you’re not allowed to make a sound.  understood?  ❞

❝  ask nicely and i might let you lick my plate clean.  ❞

❝  sit still at my feet and be a good  [chosen term] until i’m finished working.  if you make a noise without permission or move before i say so,  i will add more time.  do you understand?  ❞

❝  i’m in a good mood today,  you may choose your punishment this time but only if you ask for it politely. ❞

❝  you’ve been so good for me,  you may eat now.  ❞

❝  may i please take a nap with you,  [chosen term for dom]?  ❞

❝  what should your reward be,  hmm?  ❞

❝  we’re done when i say we are and if you ask again i’ll add another punishment.  ❞

❝  stand in the corner and face the wall.  arms up.  don’t lower them unless i give permission.  ❞

❝  did i say you could speed up?  fuck me slowly like a good [chosen term] or i’ll make you stop completely.  ❞

❝  i’ll send you to bed without dinner if you don’t cut that out.  ❞

❝  until you finish your water,  we’re not going anywhere.  ❞

❝  tell me when you’re about to cum.  ❞

❝  that’s enough.  take a cold shower and when you’re done come back to me.  don’t dress yourself.  no drying off.  ❞

❝  i said you would get a reward,  i didn’t say it would be you finishing.  ❞

❝  come here.  sit in my lap and tell me what you want,  [chosen term for sub].  ❞

❝  i need you inside me,  please,  i can’t wait anymore.  ❞

❝  and what happens if i say no?  ❞

❝  please  let me cum.  i’m a good [chosen term].  ❞

❝  can i finish now?  ❞

❝  i’ll take a spanking,  please.  ❞

❝  i’ll go without coming,  [chosen term for dom].  thank you.  ❞

❝  thank you for my punishment,  [chosen term].  ❞

❝  thank you for my reward,  [chosen term].  ❞

❝  i just want to make you happy,  [chosen term for dom].  ❞

❝  get on the bed,  on all fours.  wait just like that until i decide you’re ready.  ❞

❝  no.  give me a reason why i should do as you say.  ❞

❝  if you’re good,  i’ll buy you a new toy.   ❞

❝  i’ve brought you a present,  but you have to show me you deserve it.  ❞

❝  i’m close.  can i cum this time?  please?  ❞

❝  get over here and make me.  ❞

❝  stand still.  keep this book balanced on your head.  if it falls we start again.  ❞

❝  i’m your,  [chosen term].  ❞

❝  your my,  [chosen term]. ❞

SCENARIOS

1)  sender ties up receiver in a hanging bondage position as an act of submission and trust.  (feel free to specify the details)

2)  receiver ties up sender in a hanging bondage position as an act of submission and trust.  (feel free to specify the details) 

3)  sender ties up receiver on a bed or in a chair as an act of trust and training patience. 

4)  receiver ties up sender on a bed or in a chair as an act of trust and training patience. 

5)  for sender to spank receiver with [object of your choice] and make them count each stroke. 

6)  for receiver to spank sender with [object of your choice] and make them count each stroke. 

7)  for sender to sit on the floor in front of receiver and place their head in receiver’s lap to be pet and praised. 

8)  for receiver to sit on the floor in front of sender and place their head in sender’s lap to be pet and praised. 

9)  for sender to slowly massage over receiver’s body to relax their muscles and sooth the receiver after dominating them. 

10)  for receiver to slowly massage over sender’s body to relax their muscles and sooth the sender after dominating them. 

11)  for sender to slowly massage over receiver’s body as a form of foreplay. 

12)  for receiver to slowly massage over sender’s body as a form of foreplay. 

13)  for the dom to have the sub do a simple rope tie on the dom to teach them and let them feel some control.  

14)  for sender to invoke their safe word so receiver switches to aftercare. 

15)  for receiver to invoke their safe word so sender switches to aftercare. 

16)  for the sub to clean the dom’s house while they observe their work and praise them. 

17)  for the sub to clean the dom’s house while they observe their work and degrade them. 

18)  for sender to tie up receiver before giving them oral. 

19)  for receiver to tie up sender before giving them oral. 

20)  for sender to tie up receiver and have them do oral on sender while bound. 

21)  for receiver to tie up sender and have them do oral on receiver while bound. 

22)  for our muses to have penetrative sex while one of them is bound (feel free to specify)

23)  for the dom to have the sub on all fours,  using them as a table or footstool. 

24)  for the sub to sit on the dom’s lap with their dock/strap inside them,  meant to be completely still until they are given permission to move. 

25)  for sender to stand naked or in their underwear with a gag in their mouth,  not allowed to do anything else until receiver gives permission. 

26)  for receiver to stand naked in their underwear with a gag in their mouth,  not allowed to do anything else until sender gives permission. 

27)  sender has had to wear a gag or muzzle as punishment for disobedience,  receiver finally decides to let them out of it and test their submission. 

28)  receiver has had to wear a gag or muzzle as punishment for disobedience,  sender finally decides to let them out of it and test their submission. 

29)  for giving oral to be used as punishment. 

30)  for giving oral to be used as reward. 

31)  for the sub to sit on the floor beneath the dom’s desk or table with their cock/strap in their mouth.  they must stay like that until the dom either tells them to move away or to proceed with the blowjob. 

32)  the dom has been edging the sub for days and finally gives permission for them to cum,  but they must do it with their own hands while the dom watches. 

33)  for the dom to remain fully clothed while the sub is completely naked. (feel free to specify details of what act they are doing) 

34)  the sub must perform a basic task with several steps,  between each step they have to go the dom and be edged before proceeding.  (feel free to specify task)