Asexual Trans Boy Trash Prince 👑

aromanticism is not just a “white people” thing

to all the aro/ace poc out there: you are not faking it, you are not “self hating”. you are just as real and valid as any other aro/ace and any other poc.

Most health professionals don’t know anything about asexuality. This is a problem that I’m working to change, as a therapist. In the meantime, we have to advocate for ourselves.

Talking to health professionals can be nerve-wracking, especially if you’re worried that they won’t believe you. But here’s a secret: they get nervous about it, too. Many professionals think, “Oh shit, I know nothing about asexuality, what do I do?!” and end up putting their foot in their mouth. Others want to be supportive, but don’t know where to find information to educate themselves.

But, I have managed to find some articles about asexuality and healthcare. You can give them to your doctor or therapist, and if they read it, they’ll get a better understanding of asexuality. I can’t promise that this will make a close-minded person turn into an ally. But many professionals are willing to learn.

* Fail classes * Drop classes * Go to a lower level in class * Fail midterms * Can’t do homework * Have frequent breakdowns because of school * Fail finals * Take summer school * Skip days of school * Fail semesters * Push themselves too hard * Take a gap year * Can’t pay attention in class * Need accommodations * Have low GPAs * Give up trying * Drop out of school * Don’t get accepted into college