Chloé

I don't want to say "it's the most woman thing in the world to worry that you look like a man," but every time I see a girl go "ah, what if x makes me a man" I'm like .... that's some certified woman shit you just said there. that's some bonafide dame posting right there. and like I don't want to say it Like That because saying it Like That leaves in some fucked up implications. Like. Being confident in your body doesn't make you any less of a woman. Not caring if you look like a man or not doesn't make you any less of a woman. Not all of womanhood is suffering. Etc etc. But like...given, I guess, the fact that woman is treated as an underclass in this society, a narrow category where the goalposts are always moving and where "being a woman" is seen by society as some kind of wretched work in progress where you at once have to pour hours of effort into embodying a truly unreachable ideal all while making it look effortless......................... I really truly feel like there is a significant overlap between cis and trans women that is like, oft overlooked in terms of, like, "oh fuck what if I don't look like a woman enough/what if I'm not performing womanhood enough/what if I'll never be a desirable woman who people want around + are attracted to?" I have to assume the reason this overlap is oft overlooked is just straight up transmisogyny - the idea that trans women have "something" to fear, that cis women deeeeep down magically have some sort of "intrinsic" woman essence. it seems that trans girls tend to be told their reason for "failure" is that damn "male" socialization/chromosomes/whatever else, while cis girls are obviously not told they are too "intrinsically male" to be girls. But cis girls still very much have like...a majority of the same brainrot, even if their "failures" are not blamed on some sort of "intrinsic maleness." All women have -- or have experienced others try to instill it in them, at the very least -- this widely permeating fear of not appearing "woman enough." Misogyny comes for us all. All women are taught to pick at themselves endlessly. girl you are so woman rn

pulling a femmes panties to the side and fingering her until she makes a mess>>>

i know no one else has ever felt like this before, but i will be brave and speak my truth. i want to have lesbian sex