Rowan🌕🐺

> turns on my computer

“postmortem decay set in SERIOUSLY quickly”

Do you check for trackers and remove them before sharing links?

Time for a post that doesn't comply with the gimmick...

thinking about the time a former housemate said to me "hey I put these box fans in the living room because it's hot" while gesturing to the fans that I was actively sitting in front of because it was hot. and I said "okay thanks." and she kept standing there like she was waiting for something else so I said "am I blocking the airflow? do you need me to move?" and she said no I'm just letting you know they're here, in the living room, for circulation. and I said well yes, I did put that together. I am enjoying them. thank you. and she looked confused. so I asked "am I meant to do something with this information or are you just informing me?" and she said no I'm letting you know they're here because It's Hot In Here. she seemed a bit aggravated, and her emphasis seemed deliberate.

I have observed enough allistic communication to know that generally, if somebody points something out to you that you can already see or are already clearly interacting with, they are making an indirect request. but as I don't know what the request is, the only way forward is for me to guess (and likely get it wrong), or prompt the allistic to tell me clearly what they need.

Level 1: Asylums are scary because there's crazy people there.

can i be honest? i feel like the hatred of discussions of transandrophobia, rise in radical feminism, slide back into transmedicalism, and just this rise in casual misogyny and expectations of womenhood (ie: girl math, girl dinner) are all things that go hand in hand. like the perception of women as the "weaker" gender, which both denies them their agency and autonomy to do harm, and the perception of men as the "stronger" gender, which means they're seen as oppressers and never the oppressed, are all a key part of why people are reacting like this. i think that's why discussions of transandrophobia befuddles a lot of people. combine this with the erasure of transmasc experiences, and suddenly, you have the perfect narrative about these "weak girls" transitioning into "strong men".

If you’ve never had a properly rich friend as a person who grew up and/or currently is middle class to poor it’s kind of an insane experience.

Do you ever think Theo felt more comfortable as a wolf then a human? Do you ever think he would shift at night cause sleeping curled up as a wolf gave him better sleep then staying human on a stiff mattress on the floor that the Dread Doctors gave him. Do you think he'd stay as wolf weeks on end so the Dread Doctors wouldnt do any surgeries or tests on him. Do you think when he went to hell he hoped that logic would work on Tara?

saw a post about theo’s sister trauma and immediately opened my editing app 🤗💗

KICK THE CAN!