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Social media has made us so eager to “show and tell” but there is beauty in privacy. Everything isn’t meant to be on display. It’s perfectly fine to keep some things for you.

every time you hesitate, someone less talented takes your spot. the world rewards audacity and confidence, NOT potential alone.

‪no amount of physical beauty will ever be as valuable as a beautiful heart‬

people have said good things about you behind your back, without your knowledge. people have shared their love for you with others.

Learn how to think on your feet, and know this: a doer is always going to outperform a thinker. Some women become paralyzed by indecision and genuinely seem to think that they can think their way out of a situation; the best thing you can do for yourself is get out of your head and actually do something. I’m all for taking your time to plan out a decision and making sure that you’ve explored every possibility, but there comes a point when actually taking action, not just thinking about it, is the best thing you can do. There’s also a certain satisfaction that comes from being able to say “I did it”; it’s a very different feeling than being able to say “I thought about doing it" and you have the satisfaction of actually having completed something as well. Learn how to do, not just think about doing, and actually put yourself to action instead of standing still.

Ladies make your own money and instantly your self esteem and standards will increase.

I can't put into words the high and immediate self-esteem elevation that comes from knowing that you are financial free, intellectually capacitated through higher education, and building a top-tier reputation. It gives you something that your nervous system can't argue against: proof that your competency and capabilities have real impact in your life and the world around you. Understanding that you have options and agency will make your self-concept evolve much more than any form of affirmations or visualizations will, and as result, everything else begins to fall into place because desperation, inferiority complexes, and other forms of mental roadblocks become automatically lifted.