the fact of the matter is that hoeru is able to be manipulated by kuon and is willing to stay by him bc he has always wanted to be like kuon but he also has some guilt around the events of them getting separated. after losing things over and over he built up walls and refused to let people get close, and so he sticks to kuon even if he's different bc it's all he knows. kuon is like a tether, bc hoeru doesn't value himself and does feel empty but he needs something to keep him going even if it's something that will hurt him in the end.

hoeru likes to help people but he chooses to act like he doesn't. he wasn't given the room to grow like other people and experienced things that other people wouldn't understand. hoeru can survive but he's so detached and cannot find his footing so it is easy to believe kuon's words. it's true that he doesn't have a wish, and it's true that hoeru feels cheap but he cares about people and really did like having friends, but when someone tells you who you are and they're all you have left you tend to believe them. hoeru may be empty in a way, but he's capable of becoming his own person and standing on his own. it's just going to take time.

Hey all, a little Social Media PSA if you have the Facebook App on your phone. 

With the last update, Facebook began tracking something called ‘off-Facebook Activity’ which keeps up with all apps and browsing you do off of Facebook and collects that information with the purpose of targeting ads… which means they’re selling it to ad agencies. This includes access to any banking apps on your phone and your spending habits. 

 Not only is this a major breech of privacy that Facebook didn’t have to tell us about when they updated the app, it’s, of course, automatically turned on. 

From Facebook, go to the Menu by clicking on the three horizontal lines on the top right of the screen.

Scroll down to the bottom and select the Settings & Privacy drop-down menu.

Then select Settings (the first option under the drop-down).

This will take you to a screen showing multiple headers with lists of links under them

Scroll down to Your Facebook Information and select Off-Facebook Activity.

The next page has a short explanation of Off-Facebook Activity. Click Manage Your Off-Facebook Activity after the What You Can Do header.

This will take you to a screen with an option to Clear History (which I recommend). To actually turn off this feature, you will have to click the three dots at the top right of the screen and select the Manage Future Activity option that pops up.

This will take you to a page explaining in more detail what they’re doing. Select the Manage Future Activity at the bottom of the page.

THEN you can finally select the toggle to turn off Future Off-Facebook Activity. 

*his eyes and mouth are superimposed into a burrito bowl*

Guy: I look like an asshole! This better not be fuckin' real!

Pagoda Dog Bed

The listing calls it a Asian Pagoda Dog Bed but honestly it looks more like a pavilion?! I suppose it’s supposed to be an imitation of a Chinese canopy bed? But the roof is all wrong with upturned eaves for outdoor rain? Unless this doggie bed is supposed to be placed in the backyard lols

A real Chinese Ming dynasty canopy bed.

4 Corner Square Chinese Pavilion

If you really need a Chinese-style dog bed, Taobao’s selling this:

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