Girlblogger

Hi everyone! I’m a girl blogger and I’m currently 26 years old. I graduated with a Business Management degree and I’m currently working in Finance. My hobbies are working out, reading self-help books and creating content. 

The reason why I started this blog is because I want to improve myself in every aspect. I want to look back and see how far I have come. The second reason is I want to inspire you all to become the best version of yourselves. I want to show you that if I can reach my goals, you can do it too.

In this blog, I will make posts about the Law of Attraction, Self-improvement, Relationships and many more! I will also reblog posts where I get inspired from. I will give you some tips and tricks based on my knowledge and experiences.

I decided to not show my name or do a face reveal because I wanted to be taken seriously at my job. I also want to protect myself and the people around me. I can also be more authentic and give honest advice when I’m not revealing my identity. I hope you can understand this.

I want to thank all of you for reblogging and liking and my posts. I am so grateful for all of you.  

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• Reading self-help books, fictional or non-fictional books. Books about money, fashion, and more.

• Starting a business: Selling digital products, selling clothes you no longer wear, tutoring somebody.

• Being creative without using your phone: Painting, pottering, sewing, journaling and more.

• Walking after dinner: A simple walk after dinner makes my stomach less bloated and it brings me to new ideas and a purpose.

• Journaling: I write down all my thoughts and feelings instead of venting it to someone else. 

• Taking care of my looks: I make sure my hair looks good and my outfit is matching. I always use simple makeup and jewellery to finish my look. 

• Wearing makeup after crying: Especially eyeliner, it stops me from crying again. 

• Spending time alone: I spend my time alone until I feel much better, by watching a funny movie, or watching a video essay, or by doing something creative.

• Ask yourself what kind of career you want and what skills you want to learn: If you want to work in marketing, look up different types of marketing. The more specific you are, the better for your job interview.

• Make short term and long term plans: How long do you see yourself working at your current job? Which next steps would you like to make? Do this to avoid staying stuck in a job you no longer like.

• Make a good impression: Dress well, take initiative, ask for help, help your coworkers and avoid gossips or politics at work.

• Stand out from the crowd: If you want to make a promotion, you need to figure out how to stand out and why your manager should choose you over anyone else.

• You're always trying to fit in: How can you develop your own personality if you always try to fit in with new trends and with people?

• You don't have any hobbies: Who are you beside being a student or professional? What do you do on weekends?

• You're not experimenting: Did you ever tried a new haircut? New fashion style? New activities? How do you expect change if you haven't tried anything?

• You look down on yourself: How do you see yourself? How do you describe yourself? If you always see the negative side of yourself, you won't appear interesting.

• Ask yourself why you play the victim: Did something happened to you that made you feel this way? Are there any feelings you haven't reflected on yet? Do you feel that you've been treated poorly by others?

• Nobody owes you anything: You can't expect people to treat you the way you want, or to do things for you because you think that's how it should be. Not everyone thinks the same way as you. The less expectations you have about others, the happier you are.

• Change the way you think: Things don't always go according to your plan, but there are things you can control, such as your mindset and your next steps. Ask yourself 'How do I feel about this situation?' 'What have I learned about this situation?' and 'How can I deal with this situation in a positive way?'

• How do I become more educated?

• How do I become more attractive?

• How do I become more healthy?

• How do I make more money?

• How do I become a better partner?

• How do I become a better friend?

• How do I become a better family member?

• How do I get more opportunities at work?

• How do I gain more skills?

• How do I attract inspiring people?

• How do I find my purpose in life?

• Let go of victim mentality: No, the world doesn't hate you.

• Let go of overthinking: No, the worst case scenario doesn't happen.

• Let go of people pleasing: They don't care about you as much as you think they do

• Let go of wanting to be perfect: Because it doesn't exist

• Let go of laziness: Are you resting or are you just lazy? It's time to learn the difference

• Let go of bad surroundings: You won't become better if you're surrounded by people with nothing going on with their lives.

• Your short term and long term goals

• Your salary, investments and debts

• Arguments between you and your family

• Arguments between you and your friends

• Arguments between you and your partner

• Details about your relationship

• How you want to raise your child

• Your goals regarding your career path

• Starting your social media, let it grow first

• Your weaknesses and your insecurities

• Your past mistakes and decisions

• Your past relationships and friendships

• You always see the negative in everything

• You judge people too fast and too much

• You always play the victim

• You don't hold yourself accountable

• You don't spend your money wisely

• You're too stingy with money

• You don't face your own problems

• You don't move your body

• You don't work on your own weaknesses

• You have a big ego