it’s so easy to tell when someone’s never been in an actual abusive relationship vs a merely emotionally immature toxic one tbh….. and then there’s the ones who’ve never endured that at all and it’s like woaaaah you need to have a lived experience in order to understand this world we’re living in cuz without it , it’s like visiting a zoo and being like i understand the tigers now. they are cutey kitties :3c

All Enlightened souls goes through hardships, so why do you think You can’t do it ?

And that's berserk

Once you start noticing how the incapacity to handle discomfort affects how people live their lives it's actually pretty shocking how it ruins pretty much every conceivable aspect of existence. Interpersonal relationships, romantic and platonic. Career and education opportunities. Your politics Your willingness to go anywhere. The kind of food you eat. The kind of art you expose yourself to and your ability to read it. It's never just one thing, it touches everything, and once you notice it it's like suddenly being able to see germs or something. Just this horrific catastrophe people look at you askance for screaming about. As I grow older and see what became of my friends and peers who could not learn to handle discomfort, the more I'm like. This is a genuine societal issue