I think I am going to move to Thailand. But in order to do so there is a tonne of shit I need to do first. And my adhd brain can’t do it alone. I really need some accountabilibuddies 👯👯♀️👯♂️.
If there is anyone who would possibly be keen to be updated and shoot some joyful emojis my way when I tick off one of the to-dos on the list, that would be super helpful. Like the Better Bitty’s Booty Bureau but with more Zs? (Zimmbs go zoom zoom zoot zoot riot zinger burger?? (I really am not good at this))
Okay, on the list is:
⭕️ do paperwork for that thing that is waaay overdue - FUCKING DONE BABY!
⭕️ do the training for the thing that is waaay overdue - FUCKIN DONE BABY!
⭕️ do paperwork for that other thing that is due soon
⭕️ do the training for the other thing that is due soon
⭕️ go to the dentist - booked baby!
⭕️ email a doctor
⭕️ get surgery (nose no do breathing good)
⭕️ consolidate meagre savings into one place (requires phone calls 😣)
⭕️ do that training on the technology stuff
⭕️ do that training on the feelings stuff
⭕️ do that training on the writing stuff
⭕️ watch the show so I can cancel the subscription
⭕️ cancel the subscription - FUCKING DONE BABY!
⭕️ write my resume
⭕️ reach out to possible employers
⭕️ learn make-up
⭕️ sort clothes, get rid of excess
⭕️ sort things, get rid of excess
⭕️ move up to advanced Thai language classes
⭕️ be able to read Thai
My timeline to have all of this done is probably like 6 months. So by the end of 2026.
So, wanna be my accountabilibuddy and celebrate with me as I tick off the steps to get closer to this goal? ☕️👯🍵< this could be us (we are dancing and drinking tea, possibly at the same time depending on how hot the tea is)
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how many nonbinary people have come out publicly only to then semi re-closet themselves because people are so incapable of not being extremely exorsexist towards them immediately... ive seen this happen to nonbinary people across agab we cannot catch a damn break
also the way people tend to see misgendering nonbinary as like. "softer" or easier or more understandable than misgendering a binary trans person. like it doesn't even really matter, because it's basically just an aesthetic choice, and not anything to be taken that seriously
#i remember when mr beard came out and immidiately had to go back in the closet#because people were giving him shit for not changing his presentation or pronouns#its really sad
forgot about mr. beard but yeah that made so upset on his behalf!!!!!
and what's annoying is how often binary trans people just don't seem to react? like this is what i mean by people treat misgendering nonbinary people as "softer." a trans man or a trans woman getting harassed back into the closet is a tragedy, a nonbinary person getting harassed back into the closet is just another wednesday for a lot of binary trans people.
#yeah.#and then when we stand up for ourselves we’re ‘difficult’ and no longer ‘one of the fun chill ones’#i can be chill#but im entitled to the same god damn respect and i will insist upon it#get yourselves right i’m fucking tired
no this too. i do feel there's this. expectation. that all nonbinary people will be rather apathetic about their genders, that the "good" nonbinary people (who isn't "crazy" and "dramatic" and "trying so hard to be woke") don't really care about what pronouns or nouns you use, will be binarize themselves in whatever way is easiest for the binary people & system around them, will be largely unobtrusive about their gender unless it can be a funny joke for binary people (even "inclusive" ones).
& then this feeds into what i described above, binary trans people & cis allies treating nonbinary people being misgendered or going back in the closet as less serious and less tragic and less disruptive than binary people. the assumption that nonbinary people somehow have less stake in being trans, that we never physically transition, that we never have dysphoria, etc. instead of being horrified that recloseting or never coming out ever is so common that so many nonbinary people are so used to repressing their own wants and needs preemptively. using pronouns they don't really connect with just to not be seen as "unreasonable" but it doesn't hurt as bad if its not technically misgendering. there's a lot of pain in the nonbinary community that i think we have never been allowed to fully voice.
#exorsexism#i know this is usually about misgendering enbies as their assigned genders#but. i keep distancing myself from transfemininity bc people keep using it as an excuse to misgender me as a Girl#i dont want to be called she or girl or sister but people act like The Default Transfem has to be a girl when talking about her problems#im not a girl or a woman! or a puppy creature robot notperson thing! im not any online transfem stereotype! im an enby person!#and it's honestly really upsetting to be put into another stereotyped gendered box by other trans people#my gender doesnt mean i hate transfem girls or creatures or things! im just not one of them! people online dont get this
this post is ABSOLUTELY including misgendering enbies as the "opposite" gender btw. it is no less fucked up & i'm really sorry you have to deal with
personally i've started thinking maybe we could use a neologism, similar to malgendering for misgendering, to describe the kind of forced detransitioning/conversion therapy that nonbinary/genderqueer people are subjected to, where the goal is not to make them cis but to make them binary and thus palatable to cisness through forced binary transitioning.
also here's a hot take. we talk way less about this ^ kind of misgendering because its something that unites nonbinary people regardless of gender we were raised as. when you just focus on misgendering-as-perceived-sex you group trans men&mascs with nonbinary people raised female and trans women&fems with nonbinary people raised male. but what is described above is exactly what i have heard from nonbinary people who are transmasculinized.
a lot of people don't understand that just because you say you accept nonbinary people doesn't mean you don't subconsciously see our genders as less real! like trans people should not have to be begging OTHER trans people to understand that they aren't the gender they aren't. nonbinary people can feel dysphoria in "both directions" and it really sucks that only one direction seems to matter to many other trans people!!!
Thai reaction channels reacting to When Oranges Fall episode 1
I mentioned before that When Oranges Fall was surely going to strike such a chord with Thai Millennial viewers that International fans could never fully understand. But to give you an idea, I compiled and subtitled some highlights from the first episode reactions by Thai reaction channels Watchwhy Channel, IPOND TV, สายเลือด Y [My Blood Taste], NUNGNARONG and Channel Fanboys.
Here's some further context about the things they were commenting on:
1. The Yu-Gi-Oh! Trading Card Game was launched in Japan in 1999 and soon became a big hit in Thailand. At its peak, you could probably find students duelling in the corner in the morning before school started, as well as during lunchtime and breaks (providing they didn't cause so much disruption for the teacher to ban them). Since this part of the story is taking place in 1997, they're taking a bit of artistic license to fit it in there.
2. While Wall's ice-cream was already well established in the 1990s, Thai-style coconut ice-cream was also popularly sold by street vendors, especially in more rural areas. Paithong is one of the largest franchises, and having to run to catch the sellers' bike before it sped past is among everyone's childhood memories.
3. Both khru and ajarn are titles that have been used for schoolteachers, while ajarn is also used for university lecturers. Technically, there's a historical reason as the titles used to be associated with degree qualifications, though in practice, students usually just learned to call teachers khru in primary school and somehow changed to ajarn in secondary or upper secondary school. With educational system reforms in the 2000s, the ajarn title was officially discontinued, so today khru is officially used for all school levels.
4. We actually did have water pump-guns with reservoirs in the 1990s, though they were still a relatively fancy item. The PVC-pipe blasters, however, were a classic for 90s upcountry Songkran celebrations. They were the weapon of choice for charging through sois on the back of pick-up trucks while the dwellers defended their turf. They were so powerful - and dangerous - that they were banned in 2003.
5. Printing of the 10 baht banknote (recognizable by its brown colour) was discontinued in 1996. By the turn of the millennium, local mom-and-pop grocers' were already disappearing in Bangkok, but they held on for a bit longer upcountry.
6. Songkran really used to be a wild free-for-all where no one was spared, despite whatever attempts one might make to show one's intention of not participating. The situation is now much better, with both enforcement of regulations as well as changing social norms. (Nowadays, the worst offenders tend to be uneducated tourists, which has led to much online discourse.)
7. Dinsophong, the white powder/paste commonly associated with Songkran nowadays, is commonly translated as "soft-prepared chalk" or "white clay filler". Technically, the material is "marly limestone".
8. Channel 9's weekend morning anime broadcasts have long been a mainstay of shared childhood memories, especially in the 1990s when there were few other forms of entertainment.
9. The kitchen's set-up is indeed very archetypical of the setting. The rice cooker would have been quite a modern style for the time, though. Butter cookies in red round tins have long occupied a shared collective memory, with how they seem to come around every New Year's, and how the tins seem to end up with some sort of storage use in every household (typically for mom's or grandma's sewing supplies).
10. Taxi was a rock band active between 2001 and 2005 (so it's actually anachronistic for the series - the album cover in the poster is from 2002). Loso was active from 1996 to 2002. The poster is from their Superstar Project album, released in 2000.
11. You either bought school uniforms from specialty shops like this one, or if your school was big enough, it would have had a school supplies day where uniforms, textbooks and other accessories would be sold by contracted suppliers coming in to the school. I think these specialty shops still exist, though they've become much rarer as hypermarket chains ate up much of the back-to-school business.
12. Comic rental shops were another mainstay of entertainment that have all but disappeared nowadays. The official licensed print of Dragon Ball was originally published in 1995-1997 (so August must have re-read them several times already), while One Piece began serializing in Thai in 1998.
13. The Chok Dee paper bag became ubiquitous in the 1980s, being used by small shops for every kind of merchandise. Their use sharply declined with the introduction of plastic bags, though Chok Dee still exists today, now recognized as a classic vintage item.
14. Thai-style ice-cream would be served either on buns or in plastic cups, with an assortment of toppings, and things are still pretty much the same today.
15. The Apaimanee Saga referred to is a Thai comic first published in 2001. Naruto was printed in Thai under the title Ninja Katha. I couldn't find the exact date, but the cover seen here is that of volume 38, which was published in Japan in 2007.
16. The Language Basics text book series, commonly known as Kaew and Kla after the titular characters, was the official Thai-language primary school textbook series in print from from 1991 to 2002. While not regarded as so much of a classic as the preceding Mana Manee series, it has its place in most Millennials' collective childhood memories.
To all my writers who have a tough time with smut terms and not knowing which ones to use, I have found the holy grail for us.
This reddit user took a poll of 3,500 people and went really in depth with asking their favorite terminology, along with actual pie charts on what the readers preferred to see in their smut.
Here's the direct link to the Google doc with all the info!
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Sometimes I’m looking for something online - often “how to” articles - and I want to filter for - like - a website that was clearly built in 2010 at the latest, which may or may not have been updated since then, but contains a vast wealth of information on one topic, painstakingly organized by an unknown legend in the field with decades’ worth of experience.
I don’t want a listicle with a nice stolen picture in a slideshow format written by a content aggregator that God forgot. I want hand-drawn diagrams by some genius professor who doesn’t understand SEO at all, but understands making stir-fries or raising stick insects better than anyone else on this earth. I don’t know what search settings to put into Google to get this.
search.marginalia.nu is the search engine you want!
The search engine calculates a score that aggressively favors text-heavy websites, and punishes those that have too many modern web design features.
This is in a sense the opposite of what most major search engines do, they favor modern websites over old-looking ones. Most links you find here will be nearly impossible to find on a regular search engine, as they aren’t sufficiently search engine optimized.
“It is a search engine, designed to help you find what you didn’t even know you were looking for. If you search for “Plato”, you might for example end up at the Canterbury Tales. Go looking for the Canterbury Tales, and you may stumble upon Neil Gaiman’s blog.
If you are looking for fact, this is almost certainly the wrong tool. If you are looking for serendipity, you’re on the right track. When was the last time you just stumbled onto something interesting, by the way?
I don’t expect this will be the next “big” search engine. This is and will remain a niche tool for a niche audience.“
i clicked around for a few minutes searching various things and I now have two fourteenth century pie crust recipes and an apple filling recipe i want to try, so thanks!
it has been twenty minutes and I am deeply in love with this search engine.
INCREDIBLE. I *do* want to know how to test Windows 95 for Y2K Compliance and I am glad that someone is still hosting step by step instructions for that.
tl;dr: search.marginalia.nu for the old or old looking and just plain serendipitous stuff that google or Duck duck go are gonna not find/bury on the 20th page. For perfectly good reasons, but …
My absolute favorite part of having made this post - other than causing people to be introduced to this site - are the people in the tags/comments talking about their interests and stuff they found about their hobbies.
Good luck out there surfing the cyberweb, you crazy cats. I love the shoelace website too - Ian’s Shoelace Site [link], unless there’s another. My personal favorite old-school site is Alysion’s string figure collection [link].
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The context was "let's hire lgbt designers for Pride Month and not interfere with their authentic voices." This was not Ikea making a bisexual couch, this was Ikea fully funding and backing a bi person's cringe phase
I’m so close to finishing a monumental piece of writing, the same monumental piece of writing I have to do every year to be allowed to continue to do my job. But it’s still a big deal. I’ll tell you when it is done. You will be proud of me.
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This is a very charming illustration and I do approve of Accidental Latin, but unfortunately, that is not what this (Fake) Accidental Latin actually says. Google Translate seems to think "temu" is identical to "timor" (infinitive, "to fear"), which would then be conjugated in first-person singular as "timeo" ("I fear"). "Temu" is not a word in Latin. So that is a very weird leap on Google Translate's part to turn gibberish into... something vaguely etymologically similar sounding? Hmm.
Next, "die" does mean "day," though nominative singular is "dies," i.e. "dies irae." It could be conjugated "die" if it was in ablative or locative case, but "die ad die" would mean something more like "day to day." "Ad" is in a "to" direction and "ab" is from, i.e. "ab urbis," and ablative case is used to indicate the movement of a thing. In short, "by" is not really a way to translate "ad"; we might want "per" here? (Through, by means of, etc.)
Not to mention, it would be weird to put one "die" at the start and another at the end The verb also usually goes at the end in Latin sentences, just for that extra bit of fun. So yes, in short, this is not actually Latin, and Google Translate is very bad at Latin in particular. Nonetheless, still charming.
Agree, @qqueenofhades, except on the matter of breaking “die ad die” apart. It’s a common structure in poetic and oratorical Latin to jam one phrase in the middle of another. I can’t think of an example exactly parallel to this construction, but I could believe a Roman poet would write it!
Ah, that is true. My Latin is of the reading-medieval-documents (particularly charters and/or chronicles) variety, where the sentence and usage structures are often more formulaic and there is less poetic license to move words around. There is obviously far less fixity for word order in Latin, since the conjugations explain how they grammatically relate to each other rather than placement in the sentence. (Coincidentally, this is why I used to say that the best feeling in the world was walking past a Latin classroom and not having to go inside it. Ahem.)
So yes: true that poetical Latin might be more at liberty to split the "die"-s up that far, though "timeo" (verb) is still more likely in most cases to go at the end, which would place them together anyway ("die ad die timeo," "day to day I fear" if translated in strict word order, which would make sense to an English speaker and sound more poetic anyway). Keep in mind, however, that my Latin is a) fairly rusty and b) mostly used for said formulaic legal document reading rather than freeform verse, so don't super-hard quote me on this.
I saw that ablative “die” and that final -u on “temu” and thought of the ablative supine (as in “mirabile dictu”) but as you observe, there isn’t a verb that “temu” could be, and then also, the ablative supine requires an adjective, as far as I know.
But perhaps “temu” is a hapax legomenon (in which case we would need the rest of the text to gloss it) or a scribal error for temeratu, from temero, “I defile or disgrace”. In that case, and in true Tumblr form, I might translate it as “daily I disgrace, in the manner of the day”, with some errors attributable to the scribe.
....oh my god. You might be a genius. Because what else does Tumblr do but daily disgrace [itself, oneself, and/or numerous others] in the manner of the day, and make numerous scribal errors.
if you are a parent, or may become one, or you are otherwise likely to arrive in the situation of caring for a child while they eat, promise me this: if a child doesn't like a certain food or food group, you will ask them WHY. and specifically, you will pay attention to either confirming or ruling out "it makes my mouth itch" or "it makes my stomach hurt," both of which are medically important info that children may not provide unprompted. which i know because this PSA has been brought to you by "i spent my entire childhood and much of my early teens eating peas and lentils while wondering why everyone else liked the Violently Itchy Mouth Sensation so much, like were they a bunch of legume masochists or something, before i finally realized that Violently Itchy Mouth Sensation was in fact a sinister demon appearing only to me, and her true demonic name was: Legume Allergy"