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even if i dont support good faith (some are exceptions like lesboys cuz i get them, not in a cis men can b lesbians thats just dumb imo) or wtv (..not like igaf i usually dont get into labelcourse) i think ur cool brah. keep doing what ur doing :3
thanks, I guess, but I understand why you think this way.
one thing I just want you (and others) to think about is
what is a woman?
no, like genuinely, what is a woman?
who decides where female ends and male begins?
what about nonbinary, genderfluid, androgyne, agender, and multigender people? genderqueer and gender non conforming people - people who don't even buy into the idea of gender?
what about transmasc lesbians? hell, where does transmasc end and transmale begin? when does someone stop being one and become the other?
what even makes someone cis? could someone, such as a nonbinary or intersex person, be trans and cis? why do people specifically bring up cis men all the time when cis women can (and do) also identify as gay?
doesn't this remind you of something? yknow, radfems, terfs, people always trying to define what makes someone a "valid gender"?
gender is complicated. everyone who is an even slightly educated trans ally accepts this.
but for some reason, sexuality is different? even though sexuality is built upon gender?
people can admit gender is a social construct, but sexuality has to have rules. people get defensive when others question how their attraction works or even dare to bring up that their sexuality could be experienced by others in different ways.
I'm a gay guy. I'm not a lesboy or "somehow biased" when it comes to label discourse, in fact I'm just a guy whose only attracted to guys.
it's just that as a person with a strange relationship to gender due to being a system, it just feels all too familiar.
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it says you're a radinclus on your stances, is that like a radqueer?
tw : mentions of radqueers, fults, harmful paraphilias, and transids
[ edit : I found my other post that explains it better / more simply ]
no no no no they're completely different!
inclus refers to inclusive, which in this context is about queer labels. those who are radinclus are radically inclusive for queer labels, meaning they accept all lgbtq+ identities if they are good faith (labels which are made for people to describe themselves that aren't created to hurt others, like mspec monos, hence "in good faith").
radinclus people acknowledge that queer identities are diverse and should not be limited by what people think queerness should be. it's celebrating queer people's unique relationships to our identities while also making sure that queer labels aren't simplified to be more "appealing" or "good enough" for non queers, especially in the erasion of queer history.
radqueers try to be "radically queer inclusive" by essentially saying that anything can be queer and that "no radqueer labels are wrong/offensive". I'm talking transids, pride in having harmful paraphilias, encouraging fults, etc.
these are two extremely different things.
(some definitions/examples under cut incase you don't know what some words mean)
transid = thinking you can transition to anything (ex. "transabled" - thinking you can transition to being disabled just because you want to or "feel like you should be disabled")
[ note that some transid terms like transabled, transrace, and transage, were stolen from other communities and given a new meaning by transids. ]
harmful paraphilias = paraphilias where someone would get hurt if the attraction of the paraphiliac was acted upon (most commonly reffering to pedophilia, necrophilia, and zoophilia. these are sometimes called "the big three" as they are the most well known/prevalent harmful paraphilias)
[ note that having harmful paraphilias does not inherently make someone a bad person. paraphilic disorders are still disabilities that someone cannot control. if someone is getting help for their issues, is recovering, does not act on their attraction, and doesn't think of their harmful paraphilia as a "good thing" then they are not a bad person. the issue is when people don't do these things and have "pride" in having harmful paraphilias, essentially romanticising it and severely downplaying its harm. they are bad people. ]
fults = fake cults (basically trying to roleplay a cult. except obviously they use actual cult tactics because pretending to be in a cult is extremely dangerous and disgusting which will only lead to people being brainwashed/manipulated by others, even if it's "fake".)
pro endos are so stupid they can't even understand that I've never even called myself self diagnosed
idk what kinda gotcha this is supposed to be cause a lot of doctors understand that patients can find out what disorders they have. if you follow the diagnostic criteria you have a disorder lol
comparing researched self diagnosed cdd systems to endos is so funny. you don't need to show off how much you don't understand what a system is. it's okay
Tbh to keep from you facing backlash from a lot of people, I wouldn’t make country flags in general. It also isolates and disregards others, makes them seem less than in their eyes.
I don't know how some country flag pixels make people feel isolated or feel disregarded, if flag pixels on a screen does that to someone then I think they have bigger issues
also I don't make general country flags in a way, I've specified before that I've only done specific ones used to show support. I've said this before but the actual activism flag pixels aren't my focus, I made that post mainly to spread awareness/share activism links
those countries deserve attention even if it makes others feel "disregarded"
I don't make flag pixels on this account (now on @zero-flags) and I don't make country flag pixels anymore
I don't care about backlash either, and I've never had any for making those activism pixels. honestly I've only ever had asks like this where someone says something along the lines of "why don't you do other flags " which I wouldn't really call backlash
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erasing queer history by pretending that no person who identifies as male/as a man has ever been a lesbian or that people are being queer in the "wrong way" due to their gender is not going to make you any less homophobic, transphobic, or intersexist.
people putting effort into confessing to a random person online that they're an exclusionist just shows how much they don't care about queer people.
are the queer elders in your area fed? do you support trans people having complicated relationships to queerness? do you support intersex people when they rightfully call out how binary and intersexist queer communities can be?
why do you have to harrass another queer person in order to support the queer community?
any anti lesboy stuff only makes me like them more, so here's some male lesbian positivity! :
your identity is not something that should be critiqued by others and people who limit others' queerness by putting their rigid definitions on our labels, they are part of the reason as to why pride is a protest.
this especially goes to two spirit and intersex lesboys who have been erased by history and ignored by other queers over and over.
(some lesboy history)
edit : I didn't even mention that they went out of their way to be anon. you can harrass and be homophobic to others but of course you want to ensure your own safety
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