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You have immobile, frozen hands that do not fidget.

Your interests are shallow.

You read into phrases past their actual meanings.

You are unbothered by eye contact and enjoy staring into people's eyeballs.

You do not notice patterns in numbers and objects even when they are logically connected.

You don't mind doing things without planning them out first.

This language is unprofessional and does not respectfully portray the issues of neutypical people. Here is a different phrasing to make it more comprehensive and less alienating to the typical neurotypical:

You have immobility and lethargy in your hands.

You find it hard to immerse yourself in your interests.

(No change) You read into phrases past their actual meanings.

You often don't realize when looking at someone makes them uncomfortable.

(Small change) You find it hard to notice patterns in numbers and objects even when they are logically connected.

You often find yourself doing things without planning, both financially and socially.

Zemis, otherwise known as Cemis, are beings my taino ancestors worshiped. Small idols were normally made to represent them, which a tribe shaman (behique; note: we had medicine women [bohutio] as well) would present an offering to the Zemi'no/Cemi'no after we cleansed ourselves with vomiting sticks. We would often offer cassava bread, which the colonizers labeled as "communion" referencing the catholic faith.

With colonization, we taino were disconnected from our culture, and when people reconnect, they immediately jump into it by following all the "Correct" (as in, historically standing) Zemi depicted in information by white anglo saxon historians.

No.

I don't have a problem if you feel most comfortable working with Yurabey, her children, etc, but you are forgetting what a Zemi/Cemi is and disrespecting them by doing that.

Zemi/Cemi are not gods in the western sense, considering them as such is disrespectful. They're most similar to Shinto Kami, if you need a comparison.

Amatsukami are Kami who are divine beings. Atabey is most similar to a Amatsukami due to being the divine mother of our people. Although Kami and Zemi/Cemi are not the same, they are similar in the regard that these divine beings are NOT gods (in the western sense). This is the only thing Wikipedia got right: Atabey is NOT a goddess.

Kunitsukami are Kami who are earthly beings. The Great Spirit is most similar to Kunitsukami. That's right, we had a Great Spirit too. They're the spirit of the very land we stand on, and each tribe might have a different Zemi/Cemi to represent them because we all lived on different land.

Chiefs (cacique), ancestral spirits, etc are most similar to Ancestral Kami. We worship them as Zemi despite the fact they are normal, human beings and not "gods." Why? Because we don't believe in divinity the white way.

You want to know something mind-blowing? If you're intersex/trans, you're a Zemi/Cemi. That's right, you, who is living, breathing, and reading this right now are divine. Why? Because our Two-Spirits WERE Zemi'no/Cemi'no because we believed they had the same divine gender as our gods (not in the WASP sense).

The Zemi'no and Cemi'no are any beings that are spiritual in some shape in form. The tree in your yard—their spirit is a Zemi/Cemi. The ground under your feet, the spirit of your state or province? They're a Great Spirit and Zemi/Cemi. The spirit of the crow who visits your porch? They're a Zemi/Cemi.

You are not limited the Zemi'no/Cemi'no historians recorded. We believed that all spirits could become Zemi'no/Cemi'no, and by believing you can only follow those the colonists bothered to write down you are letting the beautiful traditions of our culture die.

begin to explore and re-define “what is sex?”to you.

what other ways can you open up inside and beyond penetration?

do not be afraid to explore your deepest most hidden desires or that which may feel taboo in safe ways…surrounded in a container of care and love.

It's important to remember that sex doesn't orient just from the genitals. The whole body can be a sensuous organ, the whole surface of your skin can be awakened/heightened before, during, and after sex. Any merging of genitals is only one small piece in the overarching sexual experience.

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