i get the downsides of requiring age verification on pornsites but on on the bright side gen z and beyond may be tech illiterate enough that those measures make a difference
keeping kids from developing porn addictions is a good thing

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i get the downsides of requiring age verification on pornsites but on on the bright side gen z and beyond may be tech illiterate enough that those measures make a difference
keeping kids from developing porn addictions is a good thing

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my cousin wanted to see human jax so i'm throwing my hat in the ring w/ this design
she's got cramps and he's a natural heating pad
direct response to @gymjunkie412's old post
one day natsu just lays his head on lucy's lap and starts heating up unprompted. she wonders how the hell she knew he was on her period, then remembers his sense of smell
she's mortified but the cramps are bad and he's actually helping a lot
can the body not keep the score for ONE day
healthy relationships are all about not keeping score 😔

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How to Backup your Tumblr
I was just semi-complaining that I was still looking for a decent way to backup my +4k posts without having to use paid services or even just wordpress (which has an import from tumblr tool that asks for permission to access your blog and also make posts), when I decided to actually put some effort into my google search.
Results were positive: I have successfully backed up my blog*
*By which I mean: everything that I have ever posted. Not included: drafts, queue, likes, followers, following, comments, notes, chat.
I followed this method (word by word), and now have a 450 MB folder on my computer with the name of my blog on it containing:
1. Folder “Archive” (contains .html files listed by month) 2. Folder “Media” (contains gifs and images, mine has +1k files in it; might contain also audios but I have no way of confirming that because I’ve never reblogged an audio post from this blog) 3. Folder “Posts” (contains single .html files, each one a post; I have +4k files in it) 4. Folder “Theme” (contains only my avatar, but it might be a matter of if you have personalized themes or not) 5. .html file “Index” (by opening it it will give you the archive of your blog organized by month; clicking on a month will open up the archive for that month, and you’ll be able to read all the posts for that month as if you were on your blog**, except sans your theme graphic, with each page containing 50 posts)
**I can see gifs, links, embedded videos, tags, number of notes (but I can’t open up the notes, clearly), text is also correctly formatted.
So yeah, in case anyone wants a very quick way to back up their blog, it took me less than 10 minutes.
P.S. I didn’t have any issue, but to be on the safe side always check for spyware and virus threats before and after downloading anything.
There is also TumbleThree, a standalone program, if you prefer a GUI over command-line. Also seems to have more options, such as downloading your liked posts.
learning about how the development of effective birth control alone moved women's liberation forward lightyears
...but what about the fact pulling out is 96% effective at preventing pregnancy...
men had the power to protect us all along, it wasn't even hard. they chose not to.
We celebrate David Bowie, Freddie Mercury and Prince for their gender-nonconforming amazingness as we should, but let us not forget
Annie Lennox
Grace Jones
Sinead O‘Connor
Dolores O‘Riordan
Patti Smith
Tracy Chapman
Please add if you like, i do not own the photos
We should not celebrate Pedo Bowie
^^^^
k.d. Lang (always seems to get left out, which is such a shame)
But Annie Lenox….one of my favorite stories from my childhood was seeing the “Sweet Dreams (Are Made of This)” music video when I was ~12 years old and, for the first time ever, realizing what other girls were talking about when they talked about “cute” boys. Excited that I finally understood why they were so obsessed with Leonardo DiCaprio and Justin Timberlake, I was very quick to blurt out “wow he’s CUTE!” like my friends always did to the newest boyband music video. My mother had a good laugh and said “oh that’s a GIRL though”, and told my dad they had a good chuckle at my confusion. BUT WHOS LAUGHING NOW??
idealized feminine traits are just that - idealized. we call it nurturing so we don’t have to call it subordinate. we call it compassionate so we don’t have to call it passive. nice so we don’t have to say people pleasing. being a kind, considerate person is a good thing - but only when you have a choice. and only when you don’t sacrifice your own self respect and your own ability to prioritize yourself

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“If someone asked me “What are the signs of love?” I would have said without hesitation, It’s the familiarity and the removal of cost, And to find yourself not having to lie, and the embarrassment removed between you two, and see yourself acting in your nature without trying to be something else so she likes you, And that you two keep silent and the silence gets delicious, And that one of you two talk and listening gets delicious.”
— Mustafa Mahmoud
real quick: men are not biologically attracted to teenagers because of their superior reproductive capabilities, if that were the case they'd be most attracted to women around 25.
they're attracted to infantalization. they're attracted to their "innocence" and "purity." they're attracted to young girls who worship them because they don't know any better. they're attracted to girls with no sexual experience because they won't know where to set boundaries. they're attracted to their vulnerability, because the average man's sexuality is exploitative.
men don't like women over 30 because they're onto your shit and they're done with it.
Hey, sorry if I am overstepping by adding to this post-- but i really wanted to add my own experience here. A while back, i decided to work in a fast food restaurant as a side job to earn extra money. At the time i was 20 years old, but fast food is a common entry job for most people (including girls). Most people have their first jobs when they're in high school. During my time working there, i noticed that almost every dude i worked with would be interested in the new female employees immediately (usually when she was still in high school). I didn't think much of it at first and i tried my best to tune it out. Every time a new girl came in, the same thing would happen. Hell, the same thing happened with ME until they learned i was 20 years old (for some reason?? hmm... wonder what that reason could be...) One event opened my eyes, and it made me so incredibly fucking angry. One of my managers (who was in his late thirties, early forties) was having conversations with one of my female coworkers (who was 17-18 years old). First it was friendly chatting, then he began flirting with her. She always responded nicely, because 1: we are socialized to be people-pleasers, and 2: he was a manager. You kind of have the URGE to be polite if being "rude" might put your job at risk. One day, he gives her flowers as a gift. At the same time, one of our 30 year old coworkers was hitting on her as well. When she doesn't reciprocate either of their feelings, they had the god-damned AUDACITY to tell everyone that she was leading them on. SHE'S JUST A KID. THEY WERE GROWN MEN. The 40 year old manager has a daughter the same age as her! This was a big factor in why i quit after only a couple months, and i think she left as well. I hope she left.
It's easy to get in contact with young women/girls when it's their first job. I have a feeling that some men purposely get jobs in fast food restaurants so they have a greater chance at being in a relationship with high school girls. Sometimes girls consider being in a relationship with these men because they know at least someone wants them and they're suffering from low self-esteem. These desperate men make girls feel needed and wanted. These men are vultures.
this is why there is no longer lab research on pornography.
“Countless studies have since shown that exposure to pornography desensitizes men to violence against women, o…ften shaping their sexuality in such a way that they become unable to experience arousal without some element of dominance or violence. The evidence has been so damning that, at times, universities have refused to allow further research on the topic. When a study shows detrimental effects that cannot be reversed, ethics boards will often refuse similar studies to go on. This has happened repeatedly with research on the effects of pornography.”
-Maya Shlayen, Whose Porn, Whose Feminism
EDIT: By lab research, we mean exposing human subjects to porn in a lab setting, as Dolf Zillmann and Jennings Bryant of the University of Alabama did in the mid-80′s. This kind of research no longer occurs because of the detrimental effects referenced above.
You can, however, ask people questions about porn use that has occurred outside the lab setting, then compare their answers to a variety of measures like happiness, aggression, acceptance of rape myths, etc. You will still see this kind of research, because it does not involve the researchers actually showing people porn.
Does that clear up the confusion?
Kung fu nuns of Nepal.
Via Pinterest
Fantastic
These are the Drukpa Buddhist nuns. After the April 25, 2015 earthquake in Nepal, they stayed in devastated areas and helped clear rubble, and provide food and shelter.
This nunnery was inspired to train in kung fu by female martial artists from Vietnam. These nuns defy tradition for Buddhist nuns and eschew domestic work in the service of monks for community service, education and activism.
Kung-Fu Nuns: Combining Martial Arts and Meditation by Olivier Adam and Dominique Butet
Hi, not sure if this helps, but:
I reblogged your post about the pregnancy and the changes to the body childbirth can give. I liked how informative it was and that the conclusion one might have is that we need sexual ed and abortion rights etc.
However few of my followers said it was TERF language. That because it was very women-specific and reduced to reproduction rights it might have been transphobic.
I am a cis woman and a feminist. Not a TERF though. So just to avoid upsetting people I deleted it, because English is not my native language so maybe there was subtext I was not getting.
However, I reread that post at least 5 times now and I still have no idea was was transphobic about it - other than not including alongside "women" the term "people afab" or something other in an inclusive way. I don't see anything openly attacking the trans community, but alas: I am cis and I don't want to upset them so I just listened.
Maybe this helps ypu a little.
i'm sorry, you're not crazy. nothing i reblog is transphobic, it's just regular feminism that advocates for things affecting afabs. talking about their reproductive rights isn't reducing anything to reproductive rights, it is advocating for afabs.
is talking about afab issues transphobic?

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this site is so boring. no one talks about shit that actually matters. activism isn't supposed to be palatable, it's a protest against the societal norm. if you're uncomfortable with anything controversial, your activism is performative.
are you a terf/radfem? i want to share one of your posts bc i fully agree with it but i dont want to be cancelled for "sharing content from a terf"
i’m just a feminist. and i’m extremely careful not to reblog anything that has to do with trans issues (because i’m not trans, those are not my experiences, and it’s not my place to weigh in), but in my experience people are gonna call you shit either way.
if anyone’s paying attention, they know radical feminists are the only ones talking about afab issues right now. i am afab, those are my experiences, and i want to discuss them. if mainstream tumblr would take more of an interest, maybe all the best feminist posts wouldn’t be radfem posts.